How do you give a lap dance (i've never done one before), especally if you and him like different music????
p.s. I would apprecate D-tail =]
please NO dumb answer's thank you =]
2007-02-06 17:54:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pick a song that makes YOU feel sexy. It won't matter to him, trust me.
Start slow, dancing in front of him rather than in his lap. Then start by removing your top--again, slowly. If it has buttons, undo them slowly--zippers, unzip a bit, dance, unzip a bit more, dance some more and then open it all the way. Tease him. That is basically what a lapdance is. Its all about teasing visually. After your top is gone, maybe 30 seconds later start working on removing your bottoms the same way as you did your top...slowly and teasingly.
Once your down to bra and panties, you can either straddle his lap facing him (he cannot touch...make him sit on his hands) or you can face away and lean back against him. Rock your hips against his lap, lift your arms over your head and kind of push your breasts into his face...not literally...but closely. You can continue from there with removing your bra and or panties if you feel comfortable enough or you can simply gyrate to the music in his lap, running your hands over your own body in ways that you would like for him to.
Always remember to keep to the beat of the music and to do everything slowly and methodically and most importanly TEASINGLY. Then after the song is done, what you two do is your business ;)
2007-02-14 11:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by whispersofindigo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the best way is to go to a topless bar and do some research and theres always books amazon.com has those , but i really think you should go to the bar as for the music well i've seen girls at the bar who gave lap dances to horrible music so i really don't think thats gonna matter.
2007-02-15 01:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Pacman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a strip club and pay your $20 and you will get the idea of what to do. if you are not old enough to get into a strip club you should wait till you are before you start giving lap dances.
2007-02-07 01:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carmen elektra (sp?) has out a whole dvd collection on this topic. its like a workout video but there are different topics such as stripping, lap dance, etc... who would know more about it than her right?? lol i would check that out if i were you! that way you can learn by sight in the privacy of your own home and you can even rewind!! lol good luck to ya
2007-02-14 23:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by wonderwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't care what music is on, trust me. Make sure its something you can move erotically too. If you're looking for pointers in the movement department goggle it on-line but remember sexy eye contact is just as if not more important than body contact.
2007-02-14 17:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by DCARIES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dance to a song you like....you'll move your best.
take off your clothes slowly.....looking at him with a tease
do it in the kitchen or dining room
go out to a strip club a get one...or watch...after you had a few
Ive done it for my boyfriend he loved it!!!
2007-02-15 01:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by La-La 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him sit down and dance erotically stradling his lap/ legs...
2007-02-07 01:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all in the movement of your body
make facil express
keep your arms above your head
keep the beat
remove your clothes slowly
2007-02-14 22:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all in the hips
maybe a little in the t!ts
think salsa
2007-02-07 01:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Tom O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a video
2007-02-07 01:58:38 · answer #10 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋