3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?
2007-02-06 17:50:40 · 19 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, I wouldn't talk to him for awhile, not even on MSN. I'm not sure of his intentions, but it's not fair to you. You're young and need to enjoy yourself for the time being. Don't worry about what he's thinking, b/c I honestly think you're too young to worry about marriage are any of that. You NEED to date other people and if he finally decides to come back and you want to be with him, then go for it. But for the meantime, don't sit around and wait for him b/c you are too young to not enjoy life. Don't forget, us guys want what we can't have!
2007-02-06 17:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Pedro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you worry about titles too much. Do you have to be an official item or can you just see where things go? Maybe he likes you but feels pressure from you for a relationship that he may not be committed to. The other guys could be right and he might see you as a challenge, but maybe it's not. Maybe by you keeping in touch and chatting online you have kinda stuck in his thoughts. Don't analyze so much and let things come to you.
2007-02-06 18:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im no longer particular in case you pick him to keep in recommendations you only for the sex or the instantaneous of intimacy you shared with one yet another??? the reality is men could have an similar sex they'd with you , with the lady next door if shes keen yet what the different lady wont be in a position of grant him is the feeling he had after a second of pastime with you.
2016-11-25 21:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by zagel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants a friend. maybe he needs to hang with someone out of his usual group. just because he is a guy doesn't mean he wants you for sex. he doesn't necessarily want a relationship with you either. maybe he really doesn't know. if he is wanting to settle down just give him some time and maybe he will come around and ask you out. or more likely... he does like you but feels awkward asking you out again because he is the one that dumped you. so this date was just kinda testing the waters... so to speak.
2007-02-06 17:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sleepyguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, there are guys out there who are affriad to say those words (I am one of them). If he knows your feelings about sex and isn't pushing the issue, it is possible that he wants to continue the relationship. My suggestion would be to reverse rolls, ask him out if you choose. There is nothning wrong with the female taking tthe first step. Sit down with him and actually discuss all of it with him. He maybe just affraid to ask you again in fear that you might rejection. Good luck!
2007-02-06 17:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wanted a female companion? Obviously, he probably knows you'll never spread your legs. And maybe he felt kind of awkward hanging out with you since he dumped you a year ago. Hence, taking you back home early.
2007-02-06 17:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did read the whole thing and I agree, your the fish that got away, the big goal/score(insert other sports thing here) besides maybe he kicks himself for not holding onto you...or hes just waiting for you to "break down" and have sex (with him or someone else)and then he wants to grab a piece since he has a reason to talk to you it makes it easier
2007-02-06 17:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by lordbling55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might sound a little mediocre- but wait just a little longer, you have to find his true intentions, which will probably reveal themselves soon. I really can't tell, but if I was you...I wouldn't trust him.
2007-02-06 17:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by Typical 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to come to you for sex. He knows you and he knows how you'll react. That's what i'd do too.
2007-02-06 17:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by impossibilityoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I smell Booty Call! Ya didn't give it up and he's gonna wait again for a while and hope you'll give in this time.
2007-02-06 17:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋