How do i get my girlfriend to lose weight?

Question

At first she was thin,then after a while she started putting on weight,can u believe she actually wears a size 33 for her jeans?I feel uncomfortable to be seen out with her.I can't really stop seeing her cause she's good at homework and helps me.Help!!I wanna do it,if possible without hurting her feelings...

Answer 1

no offence.. but i think in a way, ur using her so u can do whats good for u.. but THEN again, u want her to lose weight without hurting her feelings so i can see that you at least do care about her...

uhm.. is she uncomfortable about her weight? if so, you should take it slow.. maybe do something like going for jogs and asking her if she wants to go with you.. things like that... obviously you'd be trying to make a point and she might get an idea.. if she asks you just tell her you want the both of u to be fit and healthy, i means its true.. being overweights means ur NOT fit and healthy so ur not lying.. and dont ever ever tell her she's overweight or ur not comfortable with the way she looks. people can be sensitive about the way they present themselves and saying that might just break her, EVEN if she knows ur saying it for the good and even if ur just trying to be nice.

if it gets to a point where ur really scared ull hurt her but u dont enjoy the company except for the tutoring, you might just need to let her go.. its better than being worried when really you need her help for homework...

good luck =]

Answer 2

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Answer 3

You don't want to break up wih her because she's good at homework? Boy, i don't think you're with her for the right reasons! But you could just subtley mention that you think she should cut back on the junk food, as you juist read an article about premature deaths due to fatty foods...or something like that.
Lotsa Love
La Genius
P.S Size 33? Mamma mia!

Answer 4

You dont really care about this girl, you just dont want to feel like a superficial jerk for your own sake. Not that I blame you, but dude, get out. Just tell her you are not attracted to her anymore and you dont want to date her. People change, attractions change, feelings change, its just the way it is and something that we all have to deal with. If you want out, get out. You dont even need to explain yourself if you dont want to, though it would probably benefit her in the long run if you at least gave her a reason. Everyone knows that guys are attracted physically attractive females, and so even though everyone on her is going to try to paint you as the bad guy, I think it is a mutual two way street and she didnt keep up her understood part of the relationship. Its the same as if she knew you were attracted to brunettes and she goes out and bleaches her hair. Everyone says that its whats on the inside that counts, but we all know that that is just not true even though in a perfect world maybe it should be. If you dont like her anymore, dump her and both of you can move on.

Answer 5

get a tutor to yourself, ama le if possible , let your family help you ans supervise while your tutor is there with you.
and be careful of abuse.
but for the girl, it is not your problem to solve her problem, you only give her advice and maybe tell her that it is not healthy, and encourage by showing her by your eating style being healthy, maybe if not, do exercise, My husband has also gain weight, but when I lost 10 kgs, he went to exercise oout in the yard and did gardening for long hours every week-end coz he has work during the week, he lost a lot of weight. and also another trick, is make her feel like you are proud of her if she loose weight, don't praise her for eating, you should put limits for her, you are helping her this way. Doctor Bill has talked about this one day, and said that friends are responsible by encouraging her and not offering her food that is fatty.

Answer 6

wow. I cant believe i even read that.

What if shes just with you because she thinks shes helping you do better but cant stand the fact your so lame and stupid.

33 is not a HORRIBLE size its just not a size 0 or 2

TELLing her you like her for being smart she just is ugly will hurt no matter how you say it so if your gonna tell her tell her the truth and as simply as pos.

GL!

Answer 7

Well you gave away the answer to my question---how old are you??? Let's see---homework---do your own---and if you cannot accept a friend for the way they are, you are in need of more than just suggestions---you need to get a grip and a clue----your attitude is really terrible and immature. Hope your life and your outlook changes real fast---I would think you would be more sensitive to her or anyone with the ability to share knowledge and friendship with you. grow up and see the light.

Answer 8

You are not really thinking of her at all. You seem to be only thinking of yourself, maybe she has gained weight because she is stressed, if thats the case she needs someone she can depend on. I think you should encourage her to do lots of outdoor sports, definitley do NOT tell her you think she should lose weight as she probably already knows and it will just hurt her feelings....
Ps stop being so shallow

Answer 9

I've lost 5 kilos in my first week. It's my 10th day and I have included salad with some protein (eg. egg/ lean chicken) as you suggested. After 4 years of trying, the fat is finally coming off. It truly feels like magic!

Get started today!

Answer 10

If you are staying with her just because she is good at homework, you have got some problems. You can ask for help from someone else. A teacher, a friend, an after school program. If you dont like her anymore dont date her anymore.