I seem to find that all the guys I date are really horrible people- and its not until late in the relationship that I figure that out!! IT's really bothering me that I seem to have this habit of choosing the bad boys. How do I go about finding a nice, attractive, smart and funny guy? Do they even exist??
2007-02-06 17:32:54 · 8 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a typical woman who loves being treated like sh*it. That's why you choose the guys that you have chosen in the past. They all treated you like sh*it. You saw all of the signs. It's pretty obvious, but you probably chose to not see it because you're a typical woman.
All of the nice, attractive, smart, and funny guys are all of the guys you passed up to date the jerk who treats you like sh*it. They are around, but you never give them a chance because they don't really earn your respect by being nice to you. Again, you are only attracted to guys who treat you like sh*it because for some odd reason, the more they treat you like sh*it, the more you want to please them.
Nice, attractive, smart, and funny guys are all over the place. You're just refusing to go out with them. Change your attitude, date lots of different men, and maybe you'll get lucky and find someone who is a perfect balance.
2007-02-06 17:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a pattern. Do you jump into relationships quickly? Do they start out really intensely? Do you sleep with the guys right away?
Sometimes, if you can slow it down a bit and instead of letting your infatuation take you into the relationship so fast, you can look past all the hot parts and see the other stuff. Don't be afraid to say no, if the guy takes off, then you know he's one of those horribles and you just saved yourself the trouble of dating another one. Good guys are willing to take the time to get to know you. They often don't want to get into a full blown on relationshiip until they are sure they want to be with you for a while. So slow it down. Don't be insecure. the right one will find you. And I agree, don't count out the guys that are different than the ones you usually date. He might seem dorky at first, but he's probably loyal and a sweetheart.
2007-02-07 01:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by themerchantprincess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't find the "Nice" guys attractive so you never get to know that they are smart and funny.
You choose the bad boy's thinking they are are more masculine and you over look the obvious thinking you can change them.
2007-02-07 01:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by justpatagn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look past the face and body and what is inside not on the outside and you will have better luck,superficial don't work get to know them before sleeping with them and it wont hurt so bad
2007-02-07 01:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, when you say "bad boys"??? Thats just your excuse for your selection! B/c in most cases women who say that are looking for something more which in reality isn't there. Maybe you should try not to get into a serious relationship. maybe im right, maybe im wrong. but nine times out of ten im right!
2007-02-07 01:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by CWEBB24 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As soon as problems start LEAVE.
Jerks live by the motto:
If you treat em like SHlT
They'll stick to you like flys'.
I'm the answer to your last 2 ?'s.
Yet I choose to stay single for personal reasons.
2007-02-07 01:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try going for a guy u dont normally talk to
they can be suprisingly cool!
2007-02-07 01:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by jack a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come to me
2007-02-07 01:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋