girls , why are you like that?

Question

we all know that women are not visual&cant be stimulated visually or aroused by seeing male's features&they are not so physical
i read that in internet , and also i read that woman is only emotional unlike man is emotional,visual , physical
i love my gf alot , worship her, she is all my life , i give her all emotional needs,care about her,love,give her security,kneel to her,kiss her hands and feet,make poem to her,forplay her,shower her,brush her hair,wear her her shoses..etc i take care about her as if she is a baby kid
she is happy by that , but i am in the same time desire her body from her head to her toes,every inch in her body is sexy , i love to see her in lingerie,thong.etc

but wht i read in net make me very sad , is that mean she love me not desire me?my body is not important to her or arousal?and all that arouse her is to recieve forplays?why she doesnt desire my legs,feet,hands...etc?why she doesnt kiss,lick my body as i do ?do women love to be desired but not desire?

Answer 1

This is CRAZY!! Stop reading this crap! Women DO experience desire, we DO get turned on by just LOOKING at a man! For women (not all, but I would say most) it is a combination of of emotional and physical desire. And, sometimes, even if the attraction was emotional at first, it WILL become physical, meaning that if a woman was not physically attracted to a man to begin with, she can BECOME physically attracted once she is in love. But it is still physical. The woman desires the man's body just as much as the man desires hers, his chest, arms, stomach, etc. PLEASE don't believe everything you read! And no, "foreplay" isn't all that women enjoy about sex. This stuff you are reading is really confusing you! Hasn't anyone ever told you that the Internet is not always the best source of information? Talk to your girlfriend if you're worried about it.

Answer 2

Women aren't AS visual as men; that doesn't mean we can't be aroused by visual stimulation. Women are more mental/emotional, but that doesn't mean she can't appreciate the way you look.

She may love the way you treat her, but not be feeling the same desire you do in the same ways. You should talk with her about how you feel - that you don't feel desired and wonder what she needs.

Talking is key. Be open. Don't accuse, don't blame. Just talk ... don't ask her why she's like that. Ask her what you can do. Ask her what she likes about your body. There are some games (dice, cards) available at some lingerie stores that guide foreplay and help make the uncomforable easier.

Answer 3

Oh I love being visually stimulated by sexy, attractive men. It's just that...let's face it...most people aren't that good-looking, naked. But you boys have this thing called testosterone that can make a 7 woman look like a 9. And most men are plain. Whoever said that women is only emotional is full of crap. In fact, men are overwhelmingly "visual/physical" (though not exclusively) whereas a woman can be equally visually, aurally (hearing), olfactory (smelling), emotionally (but not always), and physically...and experience arousal on so many different levels. The guy who said that woman is only emotional must not have been that good in bed. (And just so you know, I'm one of those who are emotionally "distant".)

Answer 4

You're making a lot of generalizations about females. I would recommend not doing your research on females on the internet, but from experience. Not all women express and experience desire in the same way, and I would venture to say that most women do not fit your description. Women are probably more emotional, but they do not completely ignore the physical aspect of men.

Answer 5

BULLETIN____welcome to the real world--how long do you think all this nonsense is going to last??? Don't you think that you need to take it down a few notches??? She is living some dreamy times with you, but baby, you are being played---first real job and first dose of REAL LIFE--you are just going to be in the way----You are doing stuff and building up for a BIG let down---she doesn't reciprocate because she doesn't want to. This treatment is cute as kids but get a grip, get a job, and knock it off---or if you insist on this whipped scenario, don't expect the same in return---If licking on you makes you happy---go get someone who will---but she obviously doesn't want to do any of that stuff. Chances are, first real he man to come along---you'll be history.

Answer 6

I dont know where you read that info but its so not true. When woman feel a connection, we are very comfortable with being sensual with our men. Maybe your turning her off a little....Unless she is down right spoiled I dont know any woman who desire that much attention from a man...its the biggest turn off ever....Trust me! So either your lying and you dont praise her to that point( and im hoping you dont) or your really like that and i would definantly advise you to stop making yourself so available/desperate to this girl.

Answer 7

Of course women are visually stimulated. If they say they aren't, they are lying.
To prove my point...
Tom Cruise. Hugh Jackman. Johnny Depp. Brendan Fraser. Pierce Brosnan. Ben Browder. George Clooney. etc, etc, etc...
And of course Playgirl magazine and Chippendale's calendar.
Need I say more?

Answer 8

Try talking to your girlfriend that would be a good start and licking a mans hairy legs butt etc. is a turn off for me big time. Enjoy what you have and don't get all negative.

Answer 9

What's up with your English??

Women are shyer than men, I'm a very liberal women, yet I still feel uncomfortable getting naked in front of my boyfriend. She may not know how you feel.

And women are visually stimulated, we just don't know it. In studies, women were just as physically aroused as men watching pornography, but emotionally they weren't.

Answer 10

i almost can't understand what your trying to say. But are you really trying to figure women out by what you read on the Internet? you are going to confuse yourself even more. learn better English and give your girl some space to want you as much as you want her.