Last yr, my boyfriend broke up with me. Even though we're no longer together, he still calls every weekends (for one month) asking how I've been doing and stuffs. Then the next month, we decided to see each other. We kissed and made-up but we weren't still in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. We acted like we're already a couple (kissed, called each other "baby," etc) but we really are not. At the end of the month he told me he's letting me go 'cause he's not ready to committ yet and his love for me has faded a little after we broke-up. The next month we kissed and made-up again! He told me he had a little love for me left, he cares a lot about me and blah. But I feel deep down inside him he LOVES ME SOOO MUCH he's just not saying/expressing it that much. Right now we're "together" again, doing what couples do (minus sex). I REALLY LOVE HIM. It's just so hard to let him go. Do you think he still loves me? What can I do so he could love me again wholly? HELP. =,(
2007-02-06 17:29:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not playing with me and I'm sure of that.
2007-02-06 17:44:55 · update #1
why you are confuse? the love is not yet gone, maybe the problem is you, it was just a negative reaction bec. your relationship is on and off,if you think it is hard to let him go, then, dont let him go, it`s up to you how to handle your relationship, i think he love you no doubt about it, because he is at your side,...the best way you can do is take it easy.... have a unique lifestyle on your own way , always have a brand new( joke, recipe interior design, your glamour etc.. ), so he won`t get bored...
2007-02-06 18:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by prettybabies_12345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he cares but he loves his freedom. He is just making sure that your still there so when he feels lonely he can call you up and leave. Its like having his cake and eating it too good luck girl.
2007-02-06 17:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jade Marrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of u should really sort yourselves out to see what is it that u really want and what u can tolerate abpout each other.
Wake up!!!! thios way it aint taking u nowhere
2007-02-06 17:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by LadyK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he only play games with you. sorry to say, but this back and forth
is not good for anyone time to cut him loose once and for all
the only person that this will affect is you.. you deserve someone
that will love you. he not the one for you.
2007-02-06 17:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but maybe he is infatuated with this ideal woman in his head that he can't get to notice him so he settles with reality, you.
2007-02-06 17:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM
2007-02-06 17:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋