Ok heres the deal. when I was a freshman in high school I used to touch girls butts whom I thought was attractive. Yeah I know I was stupid for doing that. But Now I'm out of high school and going to college and I've outgrown doing those things. Well I happen to run into a girl that I touched back in high school. I did not recognize her at first but then I remembered. No she hates me for it. I don't blame her. I want to make things right with her but she keeps kicking me to side. What do I do?
2007-02-06 17:16:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Apologize. Tell her you're sorry and you know what you did was wrong.
2007-02-07 12:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her and tell her you would like to talk to her for a minute. Tell her that you owe her an apology for your "butt grabbing days". I'm really surprised about her being upset about that. Big deal a butt grab in high school, whats up? Better than putting a booger on her or making fun of her. If she kicks you to the side after your efforts to apologize, don't pay her no more mind!
2007-02-14 04:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her that you've grown up and explain how childish you think you acted. Do a grand gesture like give her flowers or better yet...offer her your apology and then send her flowers later, so even if you didn't get through to her all the way that may make her see you are sincere. It doesn't really matter if you're not interested in her as a girlfriend, just put on the card that you would like to be friends or ask her to forgive you again.
2007-02-07 12:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkerton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I would apologize to her for being so stupid and insensitive when you were in high school. If she shrugs you off, then at least you can feel somewhat better that you apologized. Who knows, she might smile and start talking to you about all the dumb things people did when they were in high schoool.
2007-02-13 02:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and say'' I am really sorry for everything i did in high school. I was I'mmature and im really sorry i would like to be friends and i hope you forgive me''. That should help a lot!
2007-02-14 11:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by Alissa W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her reasons for keeping you at distance are because you couldn't keep your hands too your self. Now you want too be an octopus again with her,how would you feel,not happy i guess,well she isn't feeling great either.
try some flowers and a nice little note too her. but if she trashes the flowers ,be warned KEEP AWAY, she don't want anything to do with you.
2007-02-07 12:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by catart1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wont talk to you in person.. then write her an appology letter.. those always work well... tell her that you were young and dumb.... and that you are not that same person anymore... include a rose.... and make it nice =) ... and dont worry i had my butt smacked back in high school a few times as welll, but i dont think i would hold a grudge against that person if they appolized to me.... soo good luck!!! and no more smacking bootys lolz
2007-02-14 15:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by ~ * ~713PR!NC3$$713~ * ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip her a letter explaining you know what a jerk you were and that you own up to it. Genuinely apologize and ask for forgiveness. Most people appreciate sincerity.
2007-02-11 16:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha..this is an interesting question..
but what i would do is just tell her that back in high school you were immature for grabbing people's asses..
& that you've grown out of that.
& tell her that you also only did it when you thought people were attractive..
so make sure she knows that you think thought she was hott. heh.
2007-02-07 12:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell her that you've changed and that she will see in time. Ask her to give you one more chance. ONE ONLY. and tell her that you'll surely not dissappoint her. Try that tactic (and be true to yur word) and beg her to forgive you for your past mistakes and that everything is not the same.
well, good luck
boy
bye
sa
2007-02-13 08:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by drfarfour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋