Do **** friends spend hours talking after they **** and do they ask to spend the night? I havent had many "**** friends" is this normal or could there be something more? I really like this guy but I dont want to get hurt so I dont want to tell him til I am sure he feels the same way. I know the whole "you'll never find out until you tell him how you feel" but I am just to scared and I dont want to scare him off.... he is amazing in bed ;) So how can I tell if he likes me? What are the signs?
2007-02-06 17:02:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy and I have been friends for years before we started this.... and to the dirty ho comment... go **** yourself thats about all the action you can probably get *****!!!
2007-02-06 17:14:31 · update #1
I'm guessing that **** friends means that you two are sleeping together, and you want to know if there can be more to it?
That's kinda tricky, let me tell you why: Guys are different about sex than girls are. To them, it's a means to an end, to us it's emotional whether we like it or not. He could genuinely feel that this is just a "friends with benefit's" kind of thing, or he could be into you more than that.
Do you two go out and do stuff outside the bedroom? If so, that's a good sign. Is he affectionate with you in public? Does he talk about other girls?
The problem is that there's no way to find out unless the subject comes up. The best way to do it is to be honest and frank and unemotional about it.
Just say, hey look, I think you're a really great guy. I don't want this to change anything about us, but I just need to know how you feel about me. I don't want any mixed signals or drama, I just need to know because I wouldn't be opposed to something real between us because I think we hit it off great.
If he scares off then so be it. At least you wont be sitting there hoping for something that will never be. But there's an equal chance he will feel the same way about you....so go for it!
2007-02-06 17:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time if hes a good guy he will come around to telling you how he feels then you can share your feelings as well it sounds like he does have a heart if he enjoys your company after sex and enjoys talking with you
2007-02-06 17:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's kind of hard to tell if he likes you or not. Because he might just like you in bed. And since you started off as "**** friends", its going to be even harder to establish a relationship. Bad move. =\
2007-02-06 17:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by 143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the HELL are you having sex with someone that you have no clue about? You don't even know if he "likes" you or just likes using you for sex. I suggest you open your mouth and ASK him before you wind up pregnant or with an STD...of course that would be a sure fire way to find out if he "Liked" you.
2007-02-06 17:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him if he likes you in a joking manner and if he says no just act all insulted in a playful way and say well, iiii like u, n just laugh it off so it doesnt look like u wer hurt n just giv him a kiss
2007-02-06 17:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like you are looking for a man seems like you are just a dirty ho
2007-02-06 17:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you went that far it obious he attracted to something either pysical or emotional,but if hes a player he try to warp your thoughts so he can start collecting cans=africans,mexicans,portoricans,eurocans,asiacans,and south americans
2007-02-06 17:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by game boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's all kinds of excuses for people afraid of intimacy to get to gether. **** is no differnt.
***** gets you together, but if that's all it is, he would be out the door.
2007-02-06 17:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋