I was casually dating this guy and we agreed to not fool around with other people. My instincts as well as other factors (people telling me he was fooling around with others) were telling me he was not being true to this agreement. Should I follow my gut feeling?
2007-02-06 16:44:29 · 9 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are casually dating, and you agree to be exclusive, you are no longer casually dating. It sounds to me like the agreement was shaky to begin with. If you wanted to see him exclusively and take the relationship to that level, you needed to make that message clear. If you DID make that message clear, then you need to ask him about it. Why sneak around and try and find out or guess based on gut feelings? Just communicate, or the relationship is doomed anyway.
2007-02-06 16:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you betcha!!! If you already had the feeling he is fooling around before others started telling you, the odds are pretty good that he is. Have you asked him or brought up the 'agreement' you made to see if he is still abiding by it?? If he says that he is just hanging out or has been out with someone else, but hasnt had sex...he's lying....dont waste any more of your time.
2007-02-07 01:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2007-02-07 00:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES, always follow your first mind, 9 times out of 10 what you are assuming may be true. on top of all that, people have seen him fool around, if these are trustworthy people, i would get rid of his ***. good luck
2007-02-07 00:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by need help! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your gut is always right. Guys, and girls, will lie and say whatever it is you want to hear. I know this first hand from experience. I have done it and I have had it done to me.
2007-02-07 00:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Trust a woman's instincts. It's always right!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 00:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always follow your gut feeling. I've learned that it is my 6th sense. Sometimes we really don't want to see the truth because we just don't want to believe it........ don't allow anyone to mistreat you.
2007-02-07 00:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by layla_743544 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down quietly, listen to your heart, if u love him & u choose to, than trust him
of course, trust your instincts too
2007-02-07 00:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its a very constant feeling as if something's not right, confront him about it. that will definately let you know if your instincts are right just based on his reaction.
2007-02-07 00:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋