there is this guy that i like very much and he is just a friend right now ..... however he has a gf .... but he talkes to me he said he would call me and talk to me he gave me his number i gave him mine...he wants me to meet him and i am going to he seems really nice and he doesnt live far from me mabey 30 minuets.... how do i get this guy to feel the same for me as i do for him..... be serious people please....
2007-02-06 16:42:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put yourself in his gf's place for just one minute. Imagine he breaks up with her to be with you....a year from now when he is out with another girl he likes and you are at home waiting for him to call....
Please find your own bf. One who won't cheat on you.
2007-02-06 16:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by yo_matilda_yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is to happen when the freshness of this new relationship gets like his old relationship that he is involved in now. then you are going to be yesterdays news hun. guys that dont respect their relationship now, hardly ever do! even if the guy is unhappy now with his girlfriend. No one is keeping him there. I'm a guy and that would be a red flag. You may not see it in the short run but it will hit you in the long run. There are so many guys that you can be compatible with and I'm sure this is not the first time you like a guy at this level. Attraction is every where you just have to take pride in your selection process. In the end its your heart that feels the happiness or sadness! Go for happiness Hun! not this dude! If its just physical then do what you wish for the short run but if your looking for a good person to spend great times then think twice about it. Guys that have a gf and still want to go else where are red flagers!
2007-02-07 00:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by gapp2gapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bail now. If he has a girlfriend and he's doing this then he'll do it to you in the future. Tell him you like him and would love to get to know him better but you are uncomfortable doing it if he has a girlfriend. If he dumps her then fine, you can move forward. But if he refuses then he's not the type of guy you wanted anyway. Please just don't set yourself up to be the other woman, it's a very, very awful position to be in (coming from someone who's been there).
2007-02-07 00:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear,before making any commitments make sure that the guy is anymore interested in his GF or not.Because if he is then it would be a fake relation with you.Love desn't comes forcefully and if the guy is not interested in you,you cant do anything.
Please do not make any commitments in the flow of emotions.
Love doen not in the way you want.It happens in its own style.
2007-02-07 00:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by akhil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't break up with his gf within a few days, you should give it up. NO MATTER WHAT he tells you, if he doesn't put you first, he's not worth your time.
If you really want to get him to like you, flirt with him and back off. Don't call him, don't pick up some of his calls... it'll totally throw him off and get him wondering about you.
2007-02-07 00:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by IrisJan Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever you are, be that person, don't change your style, be your self. If he doesn't like you than hes not right for you.
2007-02-07 00:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by danielditdit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone "feel" the way you want them to feel. They either do or they don't. He's cheating on his girlfriend.......he will cheat on you. Move on.
2007-02-07 00:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by layla_743544 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be with someone that has someone else
if he cheating on her with you, then why dont you think that he
wont cheat on you. time to lose this loose, he not the one/
2007-02-07 00:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋