Ok, i already asked this question but only got 2 responses saying its dad issues, but i know its not really that.
ok im confused with this chick that i like. who also likes me ( i think)
She says im cute, and that she likes me alot. She got jealous when i was throwing snowballs another girls butt. Also when i flirt with her she smiles...and some more stuff, but all of it leads me to believe that she really does like me................but..........
When I talk to her on the phone she talks to me more, except that she brings up stuff that I dont care to hear about, like "i think my sister likes you"
I asked her if she wanted to go to the movies and she said "yeah!" with excitement in her tone. But why does she hang up on me, and why would she say her dad dont care bout me coming over and when i get there, she said that i have to leave.
So is she playing me, using me, or playing hard to get? Or does she really like me but im to stupid to see thats all. what should i do
2007-02-06 16:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by wickerpark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, she doesnt act like she likes me around other people, she seems busy doign something else most of the time anyways....so thats why im confused.
Should i ask her out anyways, or just wait it out and see what happens?
2007-02-06 16:27:44 · update #1
MisterO, im 18 and she is 16, but thanks for the compliment.
throwing snowballs at girls butts is fun, you should try it ;)
2007-02-06 16:32:30 · update #2
My suggestion would be to find a different chick and forget about this one. She's playing games and you deserve better... like people say, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Go hook up with one of them!
Plus when she sees what shes missed out on you can laugh at her for playing you...
2007-02-06 16:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... if you're trying to understand how a woman thinks, forget it. They're from a different planet. A water planet... that explains all the moisturizer and stuff they're always packing on with a putty knife. If you ask me though, I'd say she's playing with you. That "sister likes you" stuff is an attempt to get you to take action! The next time she says "sister likes you", you say "really? I like her too! Should I ask her out?"... see how she reacts. I'll bet her little game comes to an end in a hurry.
2007-02-06 16:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by zosofan59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro,i am going through the same thing as you do.
we met each other on the eve of my birthday.then we started hanging out together..everything seems ok..then some funny things happened she misunderstood.after that we still keep in touch..then i confessed.but then after a while she does seems to be responding..but one thing i never ask about her status whether is she with anyone..i am still waiting..i asked my buddies what should i do this and that.they said if she doesn't respond by valentine's day then forget about it...
i think you should clarify with her 1st whether is she with anyone.if no,then you start to-get-her...
all the best,my friend
2007-02-06 16:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Von 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight. But its never good when the girl acts like she doesnt know you and keeps hinting that her sister likes you. Maybe she doesnt want drama or she's not seriously interested. Imagine it if the situation was reversed. If your guy friend acted like her to a girl, what would that mean?
2007-02-06 16:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by CatQueen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if ur chucking snowballs at peoples butts and she's saying stuff like my sister likes you you are like... 12-14 mebbe. Maybe even younger.
Too young.
Relax, she's not even old enought to really feel this.
2007-02-06 16:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she may be even more unsure than you. if i were you, {from a female perspective} i would just let things be & quit trying to make things happen. trying to put myself in "her" shoes from what you've said, there could be numerous reasons why, though maybe NOT acceptable to you, causing her actions. but, yeah, i would absolutely leave things alone & just ride the course.
2007-02-06 16:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main goal is to try and win her father. Try to show you are responsible, share the same intrests, and can take care of his daughter. If you do that, you are in, my friend
2007-02-06 16:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by airjimmyshoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like she playing games with you. so i would just
talk to her and find out what the real deal is, not this is
up/.down stuff she doing, get everything out in the open.
2007-02-06 16:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-06 16:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by sweetangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight talk helps. Stop trying to read her, rather talk
2007-02-06 16:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋