I have been seeing this guy since september and i have asked him out 3 time already i have also told him i love him but for some reason he doesnt want to date me yet is it because he has also just got out of a realtionship a few months before i met him or could it be that he still has feelings for his ex and he just doesnt want to move on right now should i continue to see him or should i move on... please help
2007-02-06 15:43:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's made it pertty clear he doesn't want to be with you.
Sorry! '-( You shouldn't have to go chasing after a guy!
GL!
'-)
2007-02-06 15:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can handle the hanging out without the commitment than continue. But it just sounds like he is not ready and if he does still have feelings and that is why he is going forward with you than hoo ray for him. At least he is considerate I know that we females sometimes cant handle just chillin. So take a step back and ask yourself can you handle it or not. If not they you need to just let it go and move on.
2007-02-06 16:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by static1182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys like me we dont want what we can have. its not ur job to ask him out make him want to ask you out. getting out of a relationship could be the reason 2 if him and his ex are still tlaking to each other or if they had a long term relationship u should give it a little more time. just remm u dont want to be the rebound chick. If you guys already had sex that could be the reason 2. Dont 4get we dont like want we can have we like the chase!
2007-02-06 15:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by help me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read your question. YOU asked him out. Its all YOU. Sorry to say this but when men are interested they take the initiative... Move on, Im sure theres many many men out there tht want to be with you
2007-02-06 15:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by diana L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your are seeing him, but you haven't gone on a date? Clearly he is not interested in you and is not man enough to be honest with you. It's time to find someone who will appreciate you and share your passion.
2007-02-06 15:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... I think he just wants play time... I'm a guy and I would be lying if I said I ever needed "recovery" time!
N E X T !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-06 15:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told him you love him and your not evern dating him.
oooooooooooh you have some problems.
slow down and smell the roses. you are moving way way way too fast even for yourself
2007-02-06 15:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really cared then you'd keep trying. when you stop feeling like you love him, then you will naturally move on.
2007-02-06 15:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by zoot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and give him a warm kiss. afterall he will fell in your love.
2007-02-06 15:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by MAHI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋