this co-worker said "maybe " when i asked him to give me a ride home-we live right by each other and i hate driving in the snow-i thought he was a gentlemen but he suggested i take the back way home when i asked for a ride and then he said he might take me home-he flirts with me so i thought he would take me home..but then i got another ride..so was he being rude?
2007-02-06 15:38:45 · 7 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
He most likely was thinking he was being funny. I joke around with people at work all the time so they know not to take me serious when they ask me if I can do something and I tell them no. Don't take it seriously.
2007-02-06 17:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was avoiding answering you. He said maybe, and then suggested you take a different route.
Perhaps he doesn't feel comfortable giving you a ride. You said "he flirts with me so I thought he would take me home". Are you sure you're reading this right? It might be just a little presumptuous to think that you should be able to expect a ride home from someone, just because they flirt with you.
He might be thinking that you only asked for a ride as an excuse to spend time with him. Maybe he thinks it's you doing the flirting, and he's really not that interested.
2007-02-07 00:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no he wasn't i say that all the time to ppl.(just to the ones who disrespect my rules and my car!) i usual say no in the winter mostly if it is snowing if i get into accident i just want it to be me hurt instead of someone else. maybe he had stuff to do after work or want to do something with out having to take u home first. there could have been many reasons behind it. if u want to know the real answer then just ask him the next time you see him.
2007-02-06 23:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by broncosnumber30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably wasn't trying to be rude, but the end result was rudeness none the less. Let him know that ambiguous, assinine answers make you annoyed when you're asking him a serious question.
2007-02-06 23:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by extton 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not mean to be rude. He was just being casual about it. or maybe he tried to turn it into a joke but it didn't work out.
2007-02-06 23:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... that was rude, it was a yes or no question.
don't ask him for any help no more .
If he could not help you or didn't wont to all he need to say sorry I cant.
theirs a lot nicer Gentlemen out there.
2007-02-06 23:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by ღ♥ஐcookie1ஐ♥ღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*In my opinion, yea, he was rude.*
2007-02-07 13:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Check this out! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋