Sent the girl I'm dating flowers on the anniversary of her sisters death. I really like her and want to like me. Was this thoughtful or calculating?
2007-02-06 15:33:28 · 14 answers · asked by makeurbrainhurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't send her flowers maybe a card. Flowers say celebrate not anniversary of a loved one. Unless you are a loved one I wouldn't send flowers. If you want her to like you than don't be afraid, tell her. Trust me, us girls know when you like us, and it is better to hear it from your mouth than someone else. Then we might just think that you are a stalker and get a PFA or something.
2007-02-06 15:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should have asked this question BEFORE you sent the flowers. You should have done something that shows your support, that you are there for her perhaps a phone call suggesting a visit to the cemetary together or maybe a walk. Don't get me wrong, the gesture was thoughtful but keep in mind the next time you get her flowers (b-day, valentines etc.) the symbol behind the gift may now mean something different to her. The flowers would have been a better gift for the sister even though it is probably still appreciated.
2007-02-06 23:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by JackLyN___ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks! I wouldn't want get flowers on the anniversary of my dead sister.
2007-02-06 23:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave my mother flowers every year on my grandmothers date of death.
2007-02-06 23:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by baby_rost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was very thoughtful but wrong time to send flowers! Your really sweet!
2007-02-06 23:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds thoughtful. It shows you were thinking of her and flowers are a considerate gift to send.
2007-02-06 23:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers were a bit much i'd say. Just a phone call would do fine.
2007-02-06 23:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was a thoughtful thing and a very nice thing. Be sure she will have you on mind. These kind of things conquer us
2007-02-06 23:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal when you are in love to make a mistake. Sorry i do not know what that means but my advice would be, "be steady fast when it comes to relationships".
2007-02-06 23:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by pimpers paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thoughtful for sure.
2007-02-06 23:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by static1182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋