Ok so theres this girl that i know and that i seriously love with all my heart. well the other day we went to disneyland together and we kissed for the first time. we were getting along and hold hands and talking to eachother as if we were in a relashionship. the next day when i get to school she tells her friends that we kissed and we went to disneland together and they just start talking crap about us and just making it awkward for me and this girl to talk to eachother. Now since all of her friends are talking crap to her about us she seems to not even want to talk to me anymore. Somebody please help me get her to like me as much as i like her. you need to understand that i love this girl with all my heart and i would do anything for her..
I LOVE HER SO MUCH PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2007-02-06 15:29:45 · 12 answers · asked by SMART_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks all of you, you really helped me out alot....
2007-02-06 15:43:36 · update #1
Her friends obviously don't think much of you, which will probably lead to this girl not wanting to be with you. Just tell her how you feel and if she's into you and she's a good person, she'll give it a shot.
2007-02-06 15:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooooo wait until shes legal age and go for it. But don't be surprised if things change in her mind before that time. 18 year olds don't date 14 year olds. That means he'll be 19 when shes 15. 20 when shes 16. 21 when shes 17. 22 when shes 18. 23 when shes 19. Thats about the very first stage of when this will be ok. Until shes at least 19, its not gonna work. Hes gonna be graduating college and shes still in HS. Not gonna happen.
2016-05-24 01:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Junior in high school and I can relate to your situation, You Need to talk to her, be upfront, if you were having a good time and you kissed then she shares some of the same feelings that you have. Talk to her away from her friends. Tell her what you are telling me, that you care for her, that you are willing to do anything. I think that if you talk it out with her, tell her how you feel. She will respond, maby tell her that if she likes you that it shouldn't matter what her friends think, and if her friends don't like her going out with you, then they aren't very good friends because friends support eachother, and that means supporting her relationship with you. Maby ask her to tell that to her friends,
Good Luck,
Savage
2007-02-06 15:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by savage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't really make someone love you so that is one thing and another it just seems that she isn't hanging out with friends the care about her and want to see her happy!! Maybe you should pull her aside with out her friends ask her what is happening between the both of you's and tell her how you feel and ask how she feels towards you!!
2007-02-06 15:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by pqr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... im in love too, i really need to know your age to give you a good answer because you might think your in love but mabie not, im not saying your not, but you probably dont understand what it is, so im going to leave the love part out... as for her friends, ignore them tell her how you feel and also tell her if you really like me as much as i like you, you shouldnt act like that because of your friends if she does really like you she'll slowly change back to how she was at disney land
2007-02-06 15:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by SERIOUSLY THOUGH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like first love!
if you love her soo much what people say shouldn't bother or stop you from being togther. may be shes shy may be she does has a crush and is embarassed to talk to you around her friends and school right now, you should write her a letter and ask her if she likes you and if she wants to date you.
2007-02-06 15:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by xoxo-gina! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. She does in fact like you because of the previous day but is discouraged by the "gossip" of others. Tell her she should ignore those comments, and you yourself should do the same.
2007-02-06 15:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys liking each other is probably more important that nethng her friends can say about you.
they're probably all just jealous.
if you really love this girl, then don't let such a minor thing get between you and her.
2007-02-06 15:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her not to let her friends get in the way of what the 2 of you could have together.
2007-02-06 15:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by LostInReality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[a] her friends aren't her friends i mean that's so messed up why would they do that?
[b] if you really love her talk to her about it.
[c] i think what you should do is ask her out. ;D you kno valentimes day is coming up. so i wish you the best of luck and by the looks of it she likes you too.<3
good luck.
2007-02-06 15:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by sassysnrta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋