Men or women? I work all the time and do the best I can and I'm polite and always pay for everything and keep getting dumped. What is wrong with me????
2007-02-06 15:00:53 · 16 answers · asked by Fireman T 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well ... For starters you sound like a catch, except for one thing... It's a real turn off to a girl if you refer to yourself as a pathetic loser. Girls like a guy with self confidence, and a high self -esteem. Have you ever wondered why girls always seem to go for the bad boy types? I'll tell you why.. The are cocky and arrogant, have a lot of confidence, and are generally full of themselves. Many girls see this as a confident man and feel secure with him. While I'm not suggesting you become a cocky a**hole, it really is how you carry yourself that makes girls want to stick around. You have to convey the message to a girl of "Of course she would want to go out with me!" Instead of "Why won't she go out with me?" You should also read up on body language to see how you appear to girl with how you stand, sit and so forth. Girls are experts at reading a man's body language. It sound's like your a real nice guy so you are already half way there. Just work on the confidence part and you'll be a great catch! Good Luck. P.S. Always look a girl in the eyes when talking to her, it displays the primal show of dominance.
2007-02-06 15:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is NOTHING wrong with you--maybe it is the partner you choose. Quit trying so hard. Just be yourself and someone will come along--probably when you least expect it--and decide you are the one. In the meantime, work on letting go of the idea you are a pathetic loser. Attitude goes a long way in making or breaking a relationship. As long as you don't get too big of a head on you, you should be okay.
2007-02-06 15:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Katykins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much time and attention do you give your girlfriends???? I dated this guy once who was very sweet, everyone liked him. But he was way to busy for me, as time went by I saw and spoke to him less and less. I got frustrated cuz I wanted to spend more time with him. But everything else was too important (more important than me. So I said goodbye. There are a lot of factors to why a girl might dump you, It is always good to find out why...
2007-02-06 15:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by asking away 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I"d love to date a man who works for and takes care of himself....honey, you aren't as pathetic of a loser as you think...there are actually 31 year olds out there still living at home being cared for by there mommas....keep looking, you're going to find your match...just don't be a pushover...women also like a guy who can stand up for himself, not like in a mean way, but don't give in to her every beck and call, then she won't respect you or your boundaries........good luck!
2007-02-06 15:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhh...nothing as far as I could tell. Do you have any strange quirks? Do the girls ever give you a reason? I wish that in the dating world it was so easy to find a guy who was polite and paid for dinner.... Sorry to hear about your luck!
2007-02-06 15:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by krystiinkay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you heard of the saying..."nice guys finish last" there needs to be a balance in ALL things...another thing just as (if not more) important...if you think of yrself as a looser, how do you expect others to view you? place some worth/value on yrself and i guarantee you will see some changes!
2007-02-06 15:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is nothing wrong with you just that you haven't find the right people for you...Thats all... Hey that happend to everybody just tha nobody can admite that they are been dump a few times...
2007-02-06 15:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! Don't despair, sooner or later a woman will come by that will be able to appreciate your good qualities. Good luck!
2007-02-06 15:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by markos m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I already have my own pathetic loser just like you.
2007-02-06 15:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably nothing wrong with you, have you ever considered the possibility that its the people you involve yourself with?
2007-02-06 15:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋