Well I am wondering how do you know it time for sex if you are 15 years old. Are you ready. Is it scary also how you get ride of the parents so you can do it. Also should I wait intil marrage.
2007-02-06 14:58:54 · 6 answers · asked by Grace D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I can't decide that for you (no one can) but the fact that you are questioning it is proof enough that you are not completely ready.
There are basically three components of being truely "ready" to have sex.
One is your "heart."
This is your emotions toward your mate.
If you really love that person, and know that you will not regret your love, then that portion is checked off.
The next is your body.
Being 15, you are about ready for sex, so now you must ask if your body actually wants to do "it." If you are tense even thinking about it, you are not physically ready.
The last is your mind.
If you know that, logically, you will not like the results sex might bring, you certainly aren't ready for it.
There are STDs, pregnancy (if you don't want to be a mother at 16 years of age, I would recommend extreme care), and a whole lot of emotional effects (such as your friendship with that person) that sex can bring.
So if you aren't ready in any of these areas, you aren't ready.
However, you should talk about it with your boyfriend.
If you both agree you will not regret anything, and are ready, then you could, but with protection, of course.
But if you or your boyfriend don't feel comfortable even discussing it, neither of you are ready.
Plus, being only 15, you may want to wait unil marriage, so you may "save" the "opportunity" for someone that you truely know you love, and the person you will, hopefully, spend the rest of your life with.
After all, it will feel, emotionally, much better to be certain about why and who you are actually having sex with.
2007-02-06 15:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need to ask a question like that on the web, i highly doubt that youre really ready for it...
it's a big step and you NEED to be able to talk to the person you want to do it with about it...
and if you think you should wait until marriage, then wait til marriage...
2007-02-06 15:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by sillygoose1015 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are questioning whether or not you are ready then you are not ready. you hav to know with all certainity, without question, without thinking about it... as you are questioning it and thinking about it i know that you are not ready. wait until you are ready. mayb even wait till marriage. its not uncool or anything. im 17 and im waiting for marriage. Good luck and take care. dont do anything you will regret =]
2007-02-06 15:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til you get married. you "ready" when you hit puberty but I think it's best to wait until an age when you know who the heck you are and what it's all about.
2007-02-06 15:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till marriage ....I wont say anything.....but defintely u shld wiat for at least 3 more years to have sex and make ur body fully prepared to have sex......
2007-02-06 15:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by summeravi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT UNTILL YOU ARE MARRIED IT WILL BE SO MUCH BETTA!!!
2007-02-06 15:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Rapper4JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋