I'm really good friends with a boy who likes me more than a friend.?

Question

The problem is, I dont like him that way. How do i let him down easy without ruining our friendship?

Answer 1

Just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Also tell him that you don't want this to ruin the close friendship that you both share. If you just be honest and tell him nicely then he will understand what you are saying and try to move on!!

Answer 2

I know exactly how you feel, I'm in that position myself! I have a guy friend (I've known him forever) and I can tell he likes me, but the feeling isn't reciprocated! He even asked me to go to grad with him, and I don't want to break his heart, but I would like to go with someone else. I guess there are a few different ways to handle this situation. 1) one day when you're talking and you feel he might be turning the conversation in that kind of a direction, just tell him that you can tell that he has some feelings for you and you really appreciate that and are flattered, but enjoy your friendship with him too much to want to change it 2) just act like you always have around him and refuse to treat him like anything more than a friend, and then even though you haven't outright discussed your relationship, he'll eventually get the hint.
Those are just my ideas. Best of luck with however you decide to handle the situation!

Answer 3

Finding someone else to take his mind off of you.
next thing you know you are the plot of "some kind of wonderful"...
:)

Answer 4

Say I don't like you the same way you like me. I think you're a wonderful good decent friend who deserves someone much better than me.

Answer 5

You can't. Things will always be awkward now.

Answer 6

hook him up with ur best friend....or act like a guy