Help please!
I am 20 years old. I started dating this guy when i was 14 and we had a terrible relationship. He cheated on me, was mentally abusive, and we just fought all the time. We have been off and on for about 2 years. Well he pretty much has changed his life around because he wants to be with me really bad and cries to me all the time about wanting me back. I just feel like I will never trust him again in a relationship. We are still best friends, still hang out and talk on the phone. I just think he needs to have me in his life and I love him in my life.
Now for the terrible part. New Years Eve of 2005, i kissed his best friend at midnight...(we kiss all of our friends at midnight, its a tradition). I started to fall for him that night and It is now 2007 and I have yet to tell him how much in love with him I am. He acts like he feels the same way but I am such a horrible person for falling for him. What do I do?? Please help.
2007-02-06 14:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it, live your life without regret. A man will cry and swear and beg and plead to get you back...two weeks later...its the same guy you dumped before. Trust is huge...if you dont have it you dont have much
2007-02-06 14:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kujo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the best friend. If the guy that cheated on you loves you, he will understand. I'm in somewhat taht same situation... I am falling for my roommates ex boyfriend and we have a rule saying we cant date any ex's. But it's hard. I was with him all this weekend and we were unseperable. We kiss in the cheek and everything cuz we both know that it's wrong to kiss since he was kissing her like 2 months ago. But what to do in your problem is if the first boy screwed you up when you were 12, chances are he still will. Don't fool yourself. I'm not saying that to be rude or anything, but if you like the best friend, then stick with him. Good luck!
2007-02-06 22:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by sayrah88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you saying you love this other guy that is changing to better your relationship but yet you are falling for another guy you kissed two years ago??? I think you should be with your best friend. Good luck!
2007-02-06 22:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, if you can't trust your ex, then the relationship will be yet again, very painful. You aren't a terrible person, you are doing the right thing for moving on and keeping open options. You are doing the right thing, so continue with it!
2007-02-06 22:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been threw that same thing try to stay calm and try to be with both of them until you get tired of them both or just try to ask both of them can you just have them both and see how far will that go.This far sure will get you on the Maury show.
2007-02-06 22:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the guy you love and get it all out in the open. Find out what he wants to do and go from there.
2007-02-06 22:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to meet more people.
Don't date your X's best friend.
2007-02-06 22:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes changed, go for it, if he appears to be the same bastard, drop the mofo and move on.
2007-02-06 22:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's mental and you still can't tell!
2007-02-06 22:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by sally sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him
2007-02-06 22:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋