my bf is very immature and i dont like that at all. i wonder if that'll change since he's gonna graduate in may.
2007-02-06 14:33:56 · 4 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not always, but it should. Some people are too naturally immature to handle the working world. Hopefully your boyfriend will wise up during his time at college.
2007-02-06 14:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. I graduated last May and feel that I have matured a lot, but guys are different. Guys are about 2-3 years behind girls in Maturity. If you're 23, then guys are emotionally where you were at 20-21. I work with a guy who's 25, "applying to law school," and seriously needs to grow up. Remember, no matter what an amazing man he is, deep down inside he's a little boy, especially when it comes to sports and toys (electronics).
If you don't like his immaturity and it's a major stumbling block in the relationship, then break it off. There are plenty more mature men out there.
2007-02-06 22:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'd better. he's in for a rude awakening if he takes his college mentality out into the real world. he's gonna get way more than he bargained for in the end. good luck!
2007-02-06 22:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ID WAIT AND SEE IF HE CAN HOLD A JOB, ( IF YOU WANT TO WAIT THAT LONG) IF HE DOESNT IMPROVE THEN FIND A MORE MATURE INDIVIDUAL AND ONE THAT MAKES YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE AND STABLE
2007-02-06 22:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋