I cheated. What should I do...?

Question

I've been with this girl a little under a month now, and she really means the world to me. She makes me feel like I've never felt before. I've never felt this way about anyone ever. But a few nights ago she decided to go hang out with her college friends. I didnt really have a problem with it, it was just kind of a jealousy issue. Well anyways, we kind of had this agreement that we would quit smoking pot together. Well we did. until I got really jealous and just decided to smoke to get her off my mind. Well we got pretty baked. My friends wanted to go to this girls house who was having a party. She was a good friend of mine and my girlfriend had met her and liked her. I guess the real problem didnt occur until later that night at like 3 or 4 in the morning. Lack of sleep and late effects of weed had kicked in, and I kissed this other girl who my best friend is supposed to be hooking up with. It kills me everyday to think about it..What do you think I should do?

I've been with this girl a little under a month now, and she really means the world to me. She makes me feel like I've never felt before. I've never felt this way about anyone ever. But a few nights ago she decided to go hang out with her college friends(were both in hs). I didnt really have a problem with it, it was just kind of a jealousy issue. Well anyways, we kind of had this agreement that we would quit smoking pot together. Well we did. until I got really jealous and just decided to smoke to get her off my mind. Well we got pretty baked. My friends wanted to go to this girls house who was having a party. She was a good friend of mine and my girlfriend had met her and liked her. I guess the real problem didnt occur until later that night at like 3 or 4 in the morning. Lack of sleep and late effects of weed had kicked in, and I kissed this other girl who my best friend is supposed to be hooking up with. It kills me everyday to think about it..What do you think I should do?

We're both in Highschool by the way. She's a junior and I'm a sophomore.

Answer 1

Tell the truth. My girlfriend, now ex, claims she just kissed a a guy when she was on spring break. Her dumb *** friends posted pictures of her and him in bed together on facebook and I found them. When I confronted her with them, she denied anything. I'm not stupid and I knew the truth. She wouldn't come clean and it destroyed our relationship. I was constantly trying to get the truth from her and she was paranoid that I was going to cheat on her every night I went out. It destroyed our relationship. Period.

If she would have told met the truth when it first happened, I would have most likely left her. But I may have come back to her later after I thought about it because I believe everyone makes mistakes. However, she finally admitted to it when I finally broke up with her. By that time, it was to late, she already destroyed my trust of her and our relationship.

So my point is, come clean. If it's eating you up now, imagine what it's going to do to you later down the line. You're going to get paranoid when your girl goes out and you'll think she's going to cheat on you. Finally, I guarantee she will find out. And be sure, the S*** will hit the fan when that happens.

Answer 2

I recommend you yup tell the truth because everyone already knows eachother and u would look like a real asshole if u dont tell the one who it might hurt. one way or another it will comeout whos to say you all wont bump into eachother again someday? if u dont ur guiltyness is gonna kill u and she will know something is up, just be a man about it.

P.S. if u felt that strong about her why would you cheat on her so what if u had smoked pot like u couldn't control it u said u had to quit so obviously u have experience with it, just stop blaming it on other things like pot and be a MAN!

Answer 3

Tall the truth and tell her that you are really truely sorry and pretty much everything you just said. If you dont tell her you will just keep feeling guilty till it might accidently slip which then she will hate you or she will find out on her own which would be worse good luck!!

Answer 4

Honey in case you've already got data he's devious ("So i imagine my bf is devious doing the internet element I do have data, yet he hides his "cookies" temp records that could hint what you're doing on-line.. ") why ought to you opt on to proceed torturing your self searching for better data? purely kick him to the lessen noone advantages to be cheated on. i understand its a lot less stressful reported than finished because i'm particular you want him, yet love your self better. No guy is ever well worth your tears.

Answer 5

if you tell her you can expect one of two things. 1 she will leave you or 2 she will stay with you but never let you forget about what you did. she will throw it in your face any chance she gets. i have been through this bro. listen to me, dont say a word. and cut any links she has with the other people who know. play it cool and you will be ok

Answer 6

Tell the truth

Answer 7

too late,damage is done,couldn't keep your ding dong in your pants,tough luck.who in their right mind would want to hook up with you,a cheater.if you really want a relationship with a really good quality woman,then you will haft to change your ways.try changing friends,moving forward with your life,growing up.

Answer 8

You are screwed...tell your girlfriend the truth before she hears it from someone else. Good luck!

Answer 9

tell you g/f she deserves to know. and if she stays with you try harder 2 stay faithful. and whether or not you stay together you should practice a bit more self control.

Answer 10

Admit to your gf what you have done - your friend isn't going to be happy either