So, there is this boy that i have already went out with and i realized i STILL like him! but he likes one of my close friends and she flirts with him a ton! what do i do? do i back off and be happy for them or get angry?
2007-02-06 14:27:52 · 8 answers · asked by tay tay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him a lot tell your friend to back off you found him first
2007-02-06 14:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat him as a friend and not one who's your permanent partner, and you have no problems. You can continue with your friendship with him as well as your close friend. Take your time to get to know your friends better before any long term commitment. You will be happier in your relationships.
At the same time you don't have to lose your good friends becuz of certain behaviour which are non-issues if you think maturely.
If you are still a teen, all the more you have to take your time before any commitments!
2007-02-06 22:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you had your chance and went out with him . Obviously, you wasn't his cup of tea. Your friend shouldn't talk to him either because you went out with him before. She's no friend! Friends don't do that. Just back off! Don't be angry trust me there are other men in the sea.
2007-02-06 22:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by chocbrownskin26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright tell ur friend how u feel. Let her know that u still like him and if she wants she can have him. There is lots of guys but its hard to make good friends. Dont ruin a friendship over a guy.
Good Luck
2007-02-06 22:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and be happy. Theres nothing you can do. You went out with him and didnt click so why would you go back out with him again? If she flirts then let her. THeres no need for confrontation. THink about this: You two could fight over aguy, or you both could be happy and live your life.
2007-02-06 22:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i would recommend telling ure friend that u like this guy. she would understand and then make sure u know hoe u feel for this guy before u actually go out on another date with him. once u know how u feel for real then GO and ask him out!!!!!!!!!
if ure friend doesn;t understand then just don;t come in between ure friend and the guy u like, cuz u don't want to ruin a friendship over a guy.
2007-02-06 22:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by shrimpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your feelings be felt, and I would back off. But for you, do what feels naturally. I'm sorry, but if it's over, then it's over
2007-02-06 22:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mikail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him go. This might be harsh but you had your chance.
2007-02-06 22:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cristina O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋