I am dating a guy of a different religion and I am not sure if he is dating me just to try to convience me to convert to his religion,or if he really likes me besides the whole religion issue. He always wants me to meet with the missionaires and tells me what rules they follow by, he never told me I have to follow them, but keeps on mentioning them, I was wondering what is the best way to ask him this without hurting him?
2007-02-06 14:04:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be like.... just joke around and be like.... are you trying to convert me or are you trying to convert me...and laugh....then be like...seriously, do you really like me or what?
2007-02-06 14:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he what you two should do about having separate religions . later on you will talk to the guy and he will reply. if you seriously are in your religion strong, then its not advisable to convert. It depends on your feelings. If you really like him but don't want your religion to be put in jeapordy then I think it would be best to just ask him if he can not do anything religion related with the two of you because of your feelings torwards your religion.
I hope you get what I mean.
2007-02-06 22:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he show any interest in understanding your beliefs or is this just a one way thing. You seem more concerned about hurting his feelings than being honest. Just ask him if there is a future for us do I need to be practising your religion. Surely there is more to your relationship than religion ?
AND mister O surely sex has to be on the top of that list
2007-02-06 22:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he could just be very proud of his religion. I don't think he's trying to convert you but, I would just ask him straight out if he is wanting you to meet the missionaries because he wants you to convert. Odds are he will tell you no.
2007-02-06 22:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just spit it out. I would say hey look, i really like you and I get the feeling that you really like me. Im uncomfortalbe going to visit theese people from your religion because it give me the impression you are trying to changed me and im not trying to be changed, so if thats you agenda let me know now so we can stop seeing each other
2007-02-06 22:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by Spicy chick like hot sauce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you really like him but want to make sure that he isn't in the relationship to just convert you. Good luck
2007-02-06 22:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately,
Top 3 divorce reasons:
Politics
Money
Religion
Sensitive point that will be a sure fire way to either get broken up or get together.
Only compromise? Tell him he can beleive wha he wants and you will respect his belief if he can do the same for you, respect your beleive or lack thereof.
2007-02-06 22:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is:
A) Sit down and have a conversation with him. (EX "I am firm in what I believe and not interested in converting")
B) Breakup w/ him/tell him that he makes you feel uncomfortable when he talks about his religion so often.
OR
C) Do nothing and hope it blows over!
2007-02-06 22:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most ppl in certain religion think their religion is the only way to go , so maybe he likes you so much that he wants to save you from the doom ! so he is trying to get u in his religion for what he thinks is your own good.....or he really really likes you and might be thinking of marrying you one day ,and his religion only wedd ppl in that same religion.........anything is possible as for the question....i dont know ...goodluck
2007-02-06 22:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by should i ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and ask in a calm respectful manner. I mean, if you can't ask him something like that, then maybe he isn't someone you should be going out with...
2007-02-06 22:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by webogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋