He broke up with me after eight months saying that he wasn't feeling the relationship anymore, the idea of a "forever" was starting to get to him and he couldn't do what he wanted to do while he was with me. But he says that he loves me and if it's meant to be then we'll get back together eventually. There's 50/50 chance according to him and it's not possible for him to ever just forget about me. But even though we are broken up, we still act like we're together minus the titles. We say I love you, spend everyday together, talk on the phone, make love, etc. And he's always there for me when I need him. Should I wait until he's ready to be with me again or should I cut him off completely?
2007-02-06 14:03:49 · 8 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just move on
2007-02-06 14:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ya'll two should talk it over some more because it seems like ya'll are confused about your relationship. I think you should say the same things in your little story (question) to him and see what he thinks. If he still says that he needs his space give it to him. Don't spend all your time thinking about him because there could be someone else out there for you. he said he'll come back eventually which might mean never so live life not just wait on him. Also it depends on how you feel,tell him how you feel. You have to make a decision that is best for you.
Good Luck,
P.S. I hope you do the right thing.
2007-02-06 22:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Telle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance!!Im in his situation right now and if my girl takes me back i will make her the happiest person on the face of this earth.
Forever is a scary word for many guys but that doesnt mean we are bastards. This is very hard but try and make him see that whatever is out there is not as good as what you have right now.
Best of luck for him and for you
2007-02-06 22:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by ricardo m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me that he likes the idea of a relationship, and the benefits of it, but he doesnt seem to like the commitment aspect. if he is still being true to you, and fatihful, then i would say wait. but if he is just messing around with whomever, then i would say to leave him. it is not worth it for you to let him use you. if he is messing around, give him an ultimatum: either he settles down and commits, or you are gone. it may be hard to do but it would be better to find out sooner than later if he is really ready to commit
2007-02-06 22:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by listener 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he likes you, but then it kinda sounds like hes playin you just for sex too. but why cant he just be with only you. some guys get scared at the fact that there gonna be with one woman for the rest of there lives and they dont know what to do. if he really really loved you, you guys would've been back together in a heart beat. thats just my opinion :)
2007-02-06 22:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ever heard of friends with benefits? thats what it sounds like....you are making love..and doing everything else...but MINUS THE TITLE.....he can bang you but cant be your bf right? take a look at your situation......doesnt look good in your seat....but you cant see it...someone else has to look at it from afar and tell you...
2007-02-06 22:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by frankysnewcolorpainting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee whiz he gets what he wants with no strings attached and when he gets tired of what you are giving he can be with someone else and you get to stand there looking like a fool
2007-02-06 22:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him off girl. dont be too attached to people who dont even feel sure about u.
2007-02-06 22:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋