She keeps telling me we are unconditional friends. I honestly don't know what that means. She has a boyfriend, and has been with him for 3 months. She noticed I had a online dating profile and she went nuts on me for not telling her about it. Her sister looked at my profile so I emailed her to keep it between us, but that didn't happen. I don't honestly know what she wants from me. I am trying to be her friend. We have slipped up before and slept together. I don't honestly know what she tells her boyfriend about us. We email back and forth and talk on the phone.
Should I just stay away. I haven't talked to her since saturday and she emailed me twice today and I haven't replied. Why would she be so mad that I have a dating profile? Any insight would be great.
2007-02-06 14:02:48 · 22 answers · asked by Rodney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and ask her
2007-02-06 14:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow I say Stay away from her in all means evidently she got on with her life (a Boyfriend for 3 months) it is time for you to Move on too..apparently she still sounds confused about you and her and what you once had ? By being repetitive emailing you calling etc..What's next a reason to come over to see you ? She is playing with your mind and your heart..If you continue to allow it you will be sucked back in soon...There is obviously a reason you two split up to begin with... You also need to cut the Umbilical cord from her sister and all of her family ..None of her business that you have a profile up in a dating service.She sounds jealous and maybe even spitting nails over it possibly that she sees you are NOT going to wait for her anymore ...If you are smart you will move on past this before it becomes crazier it is utterly IMPOSSIBLE to be friends with an EX it is just TOXIC...
2007-02-06 22:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by c d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay as far away as you can! you are your own person and you can date whoever and whenever you want. she has no reason to get mad at you for a dating profile on line. she's got a boyfriend for cryin' out loud! why would you sleep with an exgirlfriend while she had/has a boyfriend? not a smart move.
2007-02-06 22:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still has feelings for you. Finding out that you are moving on is something that she doesn't want to happen. When you keep sleeping with her that door is going to remain open. In order for her to stop going nuts on you. Keep it in your pants. She is afraid of losing you to another woman. She will eventually get over it. Move on. Live your life. She has.(Some what)
2007-02-06 22:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Seanette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is trying to keep the line of communication open so she could possibly come back to you. I think she still has feelings for you and it's hard for her to let you go. If you aren't thinking about getting back with her, I would completely cut if off with her.
2007-02-06 22:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by nursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl wants her cake and eat it too.
She got hers, you go get yours. Get you a sweetheart and let her have her boyfriend to fight with. Let her know that you are not her sucker, and you are not the one to play games with.
She has no business even asking you about your profile.
Good luck and don't even email her back.
2007-02-06 22:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably still cares and if her reaction means a lot you, it also means you care what she thinks. if you have a good relationship and have a good closure w/ your relationship, then it should not be a problem. talk to her why she is reacting like that. if you are really serious on moving on, convey your thoughts to her and the need for you to find your felicity. good luck!
2007-02-06 22:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by xyne_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she want u back, thats why she's all mad that u didnt tell her about ur dating profile. n she can not stand knowing that u try to move on with ur life n forget about her
2007-02-06 22:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by vance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds controlling. Tell her that if you are going to remain friends you want to have things more on your terms. If she is controlling she will go ballistic on you. Don't back down either. If she really wants to be your friend she will compromise. If she is just psycho then you don't really want to be her friend.
2007-02-06 22:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like she still has feelings for you. Ask her yourself, and tell her how you feel. But if you feel like she's not leaving you alone, honestly just stay away
2007-02-06 22:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i just read I would said she stills want you, but won't face it. anyway ask her why she freak and just make your choice .for me I tired again with the friend thing but if she keeps giving u problems just drop her do you want to stress out all day ever day because of her?
2007-02-06 22:09:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋