What is he really trying to say..Need help?
there's this guy I am currently dating...and he told me the other day during our phone conversation, that he doesn't think I like him.. and when I asked him how does he feel about me he says that he doesn't really know how he truly feels..How should I interpret what he's trying to sa
2007-02-06 13:54:03 · 12 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-06 13:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he doesnt think you like him?" or he just wants to hear you say over and over again that you do? don't give him the satisfaction of that if he "doesnt know how he truly feels."
if you two are both young and there are no politics, ethics, morals, etc at play -- then attraction is a pretty black and white thing -- especially for men. trust me: he knows how he feels.
sounds like he just wants the upper hand: tell him you dont have time to play games.
2007-02-06 22:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by sugrsmtr287 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up.
Guys and girls will never be able to figure out what the other has to say.
BTW, he's telling the truth. He doesn't know. He is like I like her, but I don't know if I LOVE her, but instead of telling her something she wants to hear, I'll tell her something that's the truth and try to make her understand, but makign sure that I don't hurt her in the future if I really don't love her, but all in all I wanna f**k her.
2007-02-06 21:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say there is something going on in his life that is affecting his path or way that helps him talk to you! maybe a major tradgedy happened recently in his life and now he is just confused. but to answer this more fully plz give more detail.
2007-02-06 21:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by lilmisscheergirl1108 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told him you liked him right? so if he does not believe you then he is looking for more than you can give him. It is called insecurity....there are lots of guys out there....find one that had a great realtionship with his mom and dad and has real confidence and self assurance. choose carefully becasue the type of guy you date determines alot about your future. good luck!
2007-02-06 22:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by rob k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he knows how you feel about him, but I think he don't feel the same about you and he's trying to use saying I don't think you like me as an excuse to say he don't know how he feels, He's hinting around to you. But like I said he don't wanna say it... so good luck
2007-02-06 22:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by mmarie1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb, for the part that he doesnt think u like him, mayb ur just not showing enought feeling toward him like emotion and stuff, so show him that u really do like him, say u do, and just show him u have feeling for him...if u do?...haha, and if hes not sure how he truely feels about u, he seems that he might still be like pondering if he like does or not, so thats how im inturpreting it , lol,
2007-02-06 22:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to know if you liked him enough to have sex with him. He doesn't want to say how he feels about you because it depends on if you are willing to have sex with him.
2007-02-06 21:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say thats pretty unequivocal. aka really easy to understand.
He thinks you don't like him, start acting like you like him silly!
2007-02-06 21:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by ranchgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably is getting the wrong vibe from you, maybe he feels like youre not all that into him, why would he like you if you didnt really like him?
2007-02-06 21:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by LoLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋