i love my bf alot but, my mom dosent let me have one. she found out that i wuz going out with him she got really mad at me cuz she knew that he walked me to my house, and found a bracelet i made with his name on it, and also found notes he gave me. but, i told her that they were my friends and they were not mine. my bf told me to tell her that i had no bf and to ask her permision but, i know she wont let me at all. what can i invent her for her to think im single?
2007-02-06 13:51:43 · 13 answers · asked by someone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth will set you free
2007-02-06 13:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here's a tip...be honest! if you are honest with mom now and tell her that you're sorry that you lied. if you don't come clean now and your mom finds out in a few months, imagine how much madder she will be!
i'm 24 and the youngest of 3 and still live at home. i've tried all the tricks in the book but mom can still call me out on a lie. mothers are NOT stupid. your mom most likely knows about the bf b/c you kept the notes that he gave you.
she probably doesn't want you to date for a reason. i wasn't able to date until i was 16 but the first boyfriend i had was when i was 19. i am sure that your mom wants you to mature more before you start dating. maybe you love your bf as a friend.
2007-02-06 22:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ughh...good luck, im going through kinda the same thing right now. my mom will let me have a bf, but not the guy that i want. dont talk to her about it, bcuz the more u do the less trust she will have in u and she will start to go through ur business to find answers. just tell her that u agree with her-that u dont need a bf right now. and try to hide things like notes and such so she cant find them. thats all i got...feel free to email =]
2007-02-06 21:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by alyssa ♥'s christopher :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you talk with your mother, try to understand from her point of view. It is not easy being a parent, often difficult decisions have to be made that you may not appreciate. You dont mention your age so maybe she is just trying to protect you because love really can hurt it doesnt always feel great and she knows that. In my experience lies never help, some one always gets hurt.
2007-02-06 22:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiii being open, talking with her is the only way, it makes her trust you remmber you get more bees with honey than vinger so think work with mom as trust means everything to a mom have to earn it so mom will feel better and go easy on you that may sound hard but its your mom we are talking about too and it wont hurt if your guy trys to earn her trust as well make your life and time togher way more better then mom wont mind as much .
2007-02-06 21:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a toughie. And I would tell you to just talk to her, but I can see you do not want that kinda help right now. Sooo, I would tell her your best friend is dating your bf, and that she is afraid to keep the notes, but doesn't want to throw them away. SO she gives you everything he gives her to keep for her. =D
2007-02-06 21:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by peace ♥ music 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could have something to do with your age maybe. Parents just look out for their children so don't think she is a *****. Tell her how you feel and see if you can come to some arrangement like if he comes to see you while your mum is home and maybe she'll get to know him and like him.
2007-02-06 21:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think your mom was born yesterday? She thinks you're not ready for a BF and you're busy proving her correct.
2007-02-06 21:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? that could be why. but you know, she should be happy you have a guy that walks you home and actually cares about you enough to do that, lots of boys dont care anymore.... my daughter isnt dating until she's 36! shhhh she doesnt know that though!!!
2007-02-06 21:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lying is not of god. listen to your mom, she knows what is best for you, she is not being mean, she just wants to protect you from getting hurt and pregnancy. focus in your schooling child.trust me you will regret it if u don't listen to your mom, don't lie to her be honest, don't let her loose your trust.be smart.stay in school stay out of trouble,that boy is not good for you, he is already trying to convence you to lie to your mom, don't u think he will hide things from you as well?,think about it.
2007-02-06 21:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋