I just had a talk with my boyfriend about how he's been acting recently. I told him that the vibes i get from him are that he's not that interested in me anymore and that it's kind-of like an "eh if i stay with her great but if not o well." That's the vibe i get from him. And when i asked him is that true he replied...well "yes" if you want to look at it in black and white.
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2007-02-06 13:47:44 · 10 answers · asked by pantherkick07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that he is saying you hit the nail on the nail honey. Sounds like he's not interested in you anymore. If he does break up w/ you than you know what? It's his loss. He lost a girl who really care bout him. Forget him and find someone who loves you more. Mope a while, drag out the "angry" music, eat some ice cream, pig on chocolate, find another sholder to help you up and move on. He's not worth your time or pain honey.
2007-02-06 13:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says that in a black or white way that, 'if I stay with her great...but if I don't than o' well'. Than he seems to be hinting that either something is wrong in the relationship and he feels like his needs are not being met or he is struggling with where he sees your relationship going. So if you want to save it than find out what you can do to make him happy. That's what true love is. Putting the other person before yourself. Dig deep and hard because I know guys can be stubborn. But don't turn it into an argument. Try to fix the situation and just tell him you want him to be happy.
I don't know how long you two have been together, but it sounds like he is trying to get out of the relationship with you. Unfortunately people change in life. Heart aches come and go and new love is found around the corner. That's the way life operates. Don't worry you both can work through this.
2007-02-06 22:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by RelationGuru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to people all the time. Most guys can't ever decide what they want. Most relationships scare them because they are affraid to have a commitment or be tied down to one person. Maybe the thought of being in love scares him. Have you ever thought about asking him how he truely feels and if he feels that way about you then calling it quits? People give up lots of things to find that special someone to love and to feel that love in return. Why waste your time on someone who doesn't feel the same way you do about them? He's probably scared or has mixed emotions. The best thing you can do is talk to each other and decide to work out your feelings together. Communication is everything!
"Hello ma'am, are you ready to order," says the server looking at the ambitious couple.
"Yes, I do believe we are," says the lovely young woman sitting to his left.
"What can I get for the two of you," he asks looking at the confused but scared man on his right.
"Well, I'd like the prime rib with a baked potato. My boyfriend here doesn't know what he wants. He can't committ to anything!"
2007-02-06 21:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he doesn't care, love, or respect you anymore. i cannot believe that he would be that cold towards you. your vibes are right. now that you know for sure it is time to dump him and move on. do not feel bad for doing this either as i can tell you with 100% certainty that he does not have any feelings for you either. he is not worth your time and effort. it is his loss not yours and trust me you are better off without him. find someone who is going to love you. respect you, and be there for you. that is what you deserve. not to be treated like trash. there are good people out there you just have to look a little harder for them. don't be like some and say well i think i will stay with him because he will change because i can tell you that people like this change for nobody. do not continue to put yourself in this situation. get out, move on and have a happy life. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-06 22:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes boys can be like that and that's why we girls have to be strong see take it from me my boyfriend now is completly worse than yours i mean ok i don't even bother him during school and i let him have all the fun he wants. so when schools over he tells me he's tierd of talking to me. i only talk to him once a week once a week and im through with his attitude it's over there's better boys out there so there's no need of crying get up and move on.
2007-02-06 22:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by DMAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't know how to break it to you. Some men will avoid you rather than just being up front with you. Then you have some men that don't want to hurt your feelings. Honey, move on. He is not worth your tears. If he doesn't want to be with you then there is someone out there that does.
2007-02-06 22:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Seanette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confused and takes your love for granted...
Be carefull because sometimes guys dont see how much they really love a girl before they loose her (after breaking up with them)...If you really love him ask him if he needs time to figure out whats going on, after a few weeks i bet he will came back running to you and saying how much he missed you, if not it just wasnt meant to be...
Good luck
2007-02-06 21:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by ricardo m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either that hes not intrested in you anymore or that theres someone else that hes intrested in. I'm sorry to tell you this becuase i know it hurts becuase i went through that, but it might be best if you guys split before it gets ugly. Trust me, it will. theres always other guys out there, and i bet theres another one out there thats intrested in you.
2007-02-06 21:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he's too much of a wussy to really break up with you. If he can't be honest, move on.
2007-02-06 21:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Amber _rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just think he is being wishy washing and doesnt care for your feelings leave him behind and find you somebody better.
2007-02-06 21:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋