My boyfriend fingered me. It hurt really bad. I got no pleasure out of it. After it hurt too. I have used tampons many times before I dont understand why It hurt.
2007-02-06 13:37:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are still a virgin, he may have been stretching your cervix in a way that he was disturbing your hymen.
Otherwise, it was probably his method, or lack of lubricant. Next time, try lubricant, and have him be gentle and slow.
Good luck, and I hope this helps! :)
2007-02-06 13:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that the reason is because you are still quite young and your body didn't respond in the way your boyfriend thought.
Odds are you were afraid more than aroused... and your body responded protectively.
Even circumstances where you can get caught could create that type of response.
Read up on female sexuality and masturbation, and take it slow. Your body will let you know when you're ready.
2007-02-06 21:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not have been properly lubricated. Next time have him use some lubricant on his finger. If it still hurts, you may want to check with your gyno.
2007-02-06 21:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his hands may have been really rough, or if you were having sex for a while adn it was kinda of dry then it would hurt when he did it also.
2007-02-06 21:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by lady_eli_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was too rough. Tell him to calm himself down.
2007-02-06 21:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Steph C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably a lil too rough, tell him to be more gentle and use some lube
2007-02-06 21:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by CHR!S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe He just wasn't Gentle when He did it.
2007-02-06 21:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by M L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough lube ......try to get things slippery next time and make sure his nails are nicley trimmed
2007-02-06 21:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by should i ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice, was his finger swollen, and may i add? you sound like a real classy act
2007-02-06 21:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by HERBS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's fingers are longer then your tampon
2007-02-06 21:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by Corporate King™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋