I found a condom in my bf's trash once. He said it wasn't his. He must be lying right??? He lives alone. Since then, I always count his condoms when I go over there....and of course one was missing. He says he's not having sex with anyone else. He has to be lying right??? & no they're not our used condoms cuz I'm already 6 months pregnant by him.
2007-02-06 13:35:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, unless he allows his guy friends to come over and use his bed to sleep with (whomever), he's lying. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you really do already know the answer to this one. It's not a hotel...if he lives alone and he didn't use the condom with you, he used it with someone else. Be glad for the small good thing that it was an protected encounter, but don't overlook the elephant in the room.
2007-02-06 13:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I hate to say this but he is lying his *** off. If he stays alone why would a condom be in the trash? Guys think that females are supposed to fall for anything. Trust me, I have been in your exact situation and my guy and I was staying together!!! He is cheating and lying and there is no doubt about that. I can't tell you how to run your relationship, but, you have to live for your baby and you. If you stay with him---be very careful and don't fall for the oke-doke. If you leave him, it might be for the better. Think about it and let me know how it works out.
2007-02-06 21:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by i_love_ludacris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one of his friends came over and used his house for a quickie, his neighbor decided to dump his garbage in his trash can, or he was experimenting with the condom, which is not likely because you're already six months pregnant. So....what do you think?
2007-02-06 21:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats fcuked up! personally it sounds like hes cheating, if he lives alone and theres a condom in the trash sumthins up bc u know damn well hes not blowin them up for the hell of it! im sorry i dont mean to sound like a ***** but u dont deserve that especially if ur 6 months prego no women deserves tht
2007-02-06 21:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes darling. He is lying. Unless there was a party at his place around that time, then maybe it was a buddy. But, chances are he's not being faithful. Good luck !
2007-02-06 21:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooooooooooooooooo, what a pickle of a mess you've gotten yourself into! Of course he's lying, now leave him alone, & put his lying *ss on child support!!
2007-02-06 21:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but girls are gullibe.....think about it he lives alone adn you saw those condoms or missing condoms and he's a GUY he obviously has no self contorl when it comes to sluty girsl he thinks are hot you really think he ddin't cheat one you wake up to reality guys rn't what you think
2007-02-06 21:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be talking to him and also thinking of your baby do you want your child to have a father around that is cheating on you ?
and go with your heart if you think his is cheating he may be
good luck and congrats. on the baby
PS think hard what you would like to do
2007-02-06 21:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by baby number two on the way 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl but he is lying. get out of that relationship. you cant be with a man who is cheating on you. and then you are having his kid, get out. leave. dont look back.
2007-02-06 21:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by cindy3282brown 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he was using it for something very personal and private and he is too embarassed to say so.
2007-02-06 21:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by barbara b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋