Should I ask this girl if she's slept with my bf? I asked him but he said no...but I think he lies to me. I'm just not sure whether or not I should ask her or how to ask her. I don't want to look stupid or like I have low self-esteem. Plz help
2007-02-06 13:32:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't trust what your man is telling you then you are going to have a lot more problems. I know that we go with our gut feeling. If he is showing signs of cheating then that's when you should question it. But, if you are not ready for what the other woman is going to say I wouldn't bother. Make sure your facts are in order before you approach someone that feel is sleeping with your man.
2007-02-06 13:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Seanette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to her like a real woman and say..."You iknow, I'm not trying to start anything with you or nothing, but I've got this weird feeling about something and I need you to clear it up. I was curious of whether or not you've slept with my boyfriend?"
2007-02-06 21:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure what it is your asking? was this while he was seeing you? (in which case i think you should confront her ONLY if you have a valid reason to suspect it and are ready to handle the answer that she'll give you) or was it before he met you? (in which case i think you have no right to be upset with him. I mean is he your first? and is that a condition you have before dating someone? )
2007-02-06 21:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by leon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask,but if you really think they did dump him once a cheat always a cheat
2007-02-06 21:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will just lie to you too. Don't waste your time with him. Move on.
2007-02-06 21:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋