Im in my 20s and 4 the last year have been in a relationship and for 6 months i moved in. 3 years ago i was raped and since then i have had problems with trusting with learning 2 love myself again to deal with it. In april last year i found out i have a serious illness that i will have my whole life and need 2 take medication for. In september everything got to much and i tried 2 take my life my baby found me in time and i spent a while in hospital and started a therapy i have recently been in hospital because of my illness and once again everything is getting 2 much stress with work my illness my relationship is going downwards and i cant even say my therapy is helping. i feel like just giving up i cant fight anymore and have no strength i can even show him how much he means 2 me and he puts up with me he has gone through alot with in the last year and still loves me he says even if we are not 2gether he would always be there. We had a fight and i finished it. what should i do?
2007-02-06 13:30:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I go and see someone once a week to talk about my depression but lately i find it hard to open up.
2007-02-06 13:46:05 · update #1
You've been through a lot and you have a lot to deal with. Go easy on yourself.
Apologise, tell the man you love him and don't do it again. He seems to be there for you. You are lucky, some people don't even have that.
Good luck.
2007-02-06 21:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you both need some time out? I am sorry for your problems, but you need some time to come to terms with all these problems, and he in all probability, needs a break too. Love and a relationship take time and energy - maybe you don't have that right now. I do wish you luck, but you need to be gentle on yourself and go speak to a GP about your feelings of overwhelming and depression - there are people that can and will help, but you have to ask.
2007-02-06 21:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the best solution right now seems to be some time apart ... u both need a break and u should give all ur strength to ur therapy ... i dont think that someone else could help u right now and for him its hard too
give it time , talk to him about and start to find joy in life again
all the best !
2007-02-07 01:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you with all your other problems, but about the split I can say:
Tell him you made a mistake because you were so stressed out and depressed.
2007-02-06 21:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by gav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋