I like these guys, Thomas and Andy (Andy's my ex), and I know I'm wasting my time and I need them off my hands, but tell me, is it just me who thinks they are jerks?
1)They say its ok for my friends to be annoying, but its not ok for me.
2) They start rumors about me, then act really sweet around me.
3) They say I'm weird and that my friends are cooler than me.
Ok, I don't know WHY they don't like me, but I can't leave these guys alone... we used to be best friends, and now, they hate me, even though they won't admit it! How do I get over them?
2007-02-06 13:30:16 · 33 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, they don't like me, maybe Andy, but Thomas says I will NEVER get a chance with him.
2007-02-06 13:42:13 · update #1
OMG ditch the losers! You sound like a nice girl and you don't need those jerks holding you down! Just back away from them and don't have anything to do with them. Good luck! =)
2007-02-06 13:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by ღღღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These two sound like complete jerks and losers....You need to find some new friends.
Why do you want to be friends with people who tell how you can or cannot act, start rumors about you behind your back and say you are weird. With friends like that, who needs enemies???
Stand up for yourself and drop these two, fast. Have a good night.
2007-02-06 13:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just let it go. It's obvious to me that you can't deal with the idea that someone doesn't like you. Well guess what there is always going to be someone who doesn't like you.
All you are doing is playing to these guy's sick little sense of humor. They have you jumping through hoops. and they are getting their kicks and giggles out of it.
It's time to stop being their court jester. move on and a year from now glance back at the point you moved forward from and ten to one those jackasses will still be right were you left them. picking on some other unlucky soul.
You were smart enough to ask the question be smart enough to take your own advice and be done with them
2007-02-06 13:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sounds like typical guys!
I was there once and I know it is hard to get over someone, but if they are going to act like that towards you, then you don't even need to waste your time on them!
Even though you really like them, when you are around them or around anyone who hangs out with them, act like they don't even matter to you.. act like you don't even know who they are!
Maybe this will make them realize they lost a friend!
2007-02-06 13:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if they're jerks or not but I probably wouldn't want to hang out with people that start rumors about me. Maybe you should get some new friends babe.
2007-02-06 13:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're jerks. To get over them you have tune them out. Dont listen to stupid stuff like that. You are you and no matter what anyone says you are still going to be you.
2007-02-06 13:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't worth your time dear.
If their only intent is to be ***** and hurt you, then you shouldn't waste your time, they're nothing but selfish, and selfishness never leads to a good relationship. I suggest you do your best to drop them and find someone nice whom will treat you right and not do this kind of s h i t to you.
2007-02-06 13:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by kittysheadcradle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill 'em. That's what I'd do.
If you don't feel like doing that, go with Carma.
Do to them what they've done to you. Get some of your friends to start hastling them about things you don't like about them. Such as their rudeness and how they start rumors. Then start some rumors about them. Nothing serious, just little things.. Like they enjoy playing with Power Rangers dolls or something. :)
2007-02-06 13:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by P'd off guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh girl, i have stuff like that to, but i move on and don't let my happiness depend on other people, and if their jerks, they're stupid!
just be the way you are! they might think you're different, but someone will like you for who you are! don't change just to get them 2 like u. not worth it!!!
just be friendly, stay outta fights...don't GOSSIP and go and find someone better
2007-02-06 13:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are mean cruel immature little boys- Don't have nothing to do with them!
We as humans try so desperately to get people to like us- we can't understand people like this because we are not like that.
So its like a challenge to us.
Forget them your too good for them!
2007-02-06 13:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by oldhen53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋