my boyfriend and i broke up yesterday he had been hurting my feelings and not acting the same. my gut feels he's cheating. plus he lives far away. and i dont see him that much. when i told him it wuz over. he said "ok bye" he acted as if he didnt care. we've broken up a couple times. and this time i made it official i dont want to be hurt anymore :'( but he keeps calling my house. i dont know why he doesnt chase me lyk he used to. i dont know wut to do? WHY DOES HE KEEP CALLING MY HOUSE?? but doesnt text me or leave any voicemails??..
2007-02-06 13:26:25 · 15 answers · asked by ~Jayda~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't bother with him. If he cared he'd want to talk about the breakup instead of just saying "ok bye." He probably thinks you are just pulling the usual because you have done the break up and get back together a couple of times. He probably just thinks it's another one of those times.
CALL HIS BLUFF! Do not answer the phone. Do not be available when he calls or texts. He's testing you to see how strong you will be.
Life is short. Enjoy some time alone and begin dating someone who is closer geographically that can carry on a healthy relationship. One who makes you feel like a princess. You deserve it!
2007-02-06 13:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with him, technically, he isn't cheating on you! He doesn't chase you like he used to, yet, you don't know why he keeps calling your house! My guess would be, he got tired of the conflicting messages you send out. Take this time apart, to clarify your feelings for him, before you contact him again. Trust me, you'll be doing the both of you a HUGE favor!!
2007-02-06 21:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by chevy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend, just need your body. I'm sorry, if I said it too rude. Some guys like girls just to touch , just to go out, just to see. But not with their heart. Most of the guys are like that. I think love comes first. I don't think ur bf doesn't love u as much as you do. You are a nice lady, I guess. You will find someone who really love u. Bear with it. Don't let him come back to you again. Coz he will annoy you again ,and you will get hurt. It's like.. U give him 100% of love, but he gives u back only 10% of love. Do you see the different? The main thing is your love and his love have to be balance. Forgive about him, you will find some gentle man , and he is waiting for u.
2007-02-06 21:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe whatever he wants to say, he wants to say to you. Now everything can be said in a voicemail or in a text message. Sometimes you want people to actually feel what your saying.
2007-02-06 21:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get real... u dont trust him and Im sure that pisses him off. Second, you DON"T respect him by breaking up with him, like its no big deal. You have to much drama, it sounds like. If u can't trust and theres no respect you've got a big , fat nothing.
2007-02-06 21:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing what probably worked for him the last time you broke up and took him back.
2007-02-06 21:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's really immature, or he wants to tell you something and doesn't know how yet. But I'd go with the immature thing.
2007-02-06 21:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all LONG DISTANCE REALTIONSHIPS WILL NEVER WORK!!! secondly, if he didn't seem to care about your feelings and just dropped you like that. He never loved you from the beginning.
2007-02-06 21:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy's a bum. Stay away from him and start fresh.
2007-02-06 21:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by funnymancurt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you'll find out is:
A. answer your phone
B. move on and ignore it
it's your choice to make.
2007-02-06 21:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋