Its confusing how i meet guys online and they say "oh your amazing" but guys that are in my town wont take a second look at me. Another thing that confuses me is how ill met this guy and he acts all interested and flirt and want to go hang out and stuff one day then the next day he'll act like i dont even exist? what is that all about? btw dont be mean about your answers. I take stuff personally sometimes =]
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2007-02-06 13:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by bLb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly a lot of times guys do not know what they want. If you are attracting people who think your amazing then you obviously have good social skills and can meet people and communicate well but maybe they are intimidated by your personality. I found out recently that even the colors you wear can effect a persons instant opinion of you. A survey showed that men that could not handle strong women even had more difficulty approaching women wearing darker colors because those colors represent their personality(the darker the stronger and more self-sufficient and the lighter being more down to earth.) Also the atmosphere impacts your interaction as well. So I am not sure the reason but if the man is right for you then he will be straightforward and open and honest and not play head games ;which i assume is what you want since you are asking for advice so hang in there and love yourself and the right one will fatefully be gifted to you in time my dear:)
2007-02-06 13:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by alvins82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Problem is, guys and girls actually speak different languages and worse yet, our translating units have an old version of the software that crashes all the time.
If you live in a small town, you prolly all know everyone anyways.
If you live in a big city, you know it's dangeerous to stare at people too long, you might get shot.
Guys are just as jittery and scared as girls are, especially younger ones, when it comes to relationships and dating. They just put up a tough front to look "cool." This front has barbed wire and electric fence when they are with their guy buddies and stuff.
Don't be surprised that a boy will say one thing on-line or on the phone, and suddenly in school or in front of others, make you the butt of an awful joke.
Eventually we all grow up and realize how special girls are, but no matter what, guys and girls will never fully understand each other. It's a language barrier thing.
2007-02-06 13:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah we do send mixxed messages sometimes. the time is when we hang out with you we like you. and if were all flirty and that you get it. that mean we like you. usally if something like the next day we ignore you its cause we heard something about you and we are to afraid to confront you about it so we kinda just shy away. another thing is we can send a mixed singnal to make you thing we like you and the we realize we dont want it or need it as in a relationship so we shy away again. not alot of guys have the confidence they need. well good luck
2007-02-06 13:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy. they send them because they don't know what they want, but still want you around when they figure out what they do want (in the event that it's you). guys are fully conscious they are sending mixed signals, so rule that one out. and some might think it's funny, but that's usually not it. to lead her on? perhaps....and there is a reason behind everything. so yes, like i've previously said, it's because they don't know what they want, but want you around aka stringin you along. do you really want that? get a guy that sends you "i want you and i'm serious about you" messages. not all thats that'll do that are the pushover "nice" guys.
2016-05-24 01:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, cause boys are really annoying and drive us absolutley bonkers?
lol. seriously tho, i think its all back to the commitment thing. the guys online kno that there probably isnt going to b anything serious goinbg on between u 2, so they tell u what they think. but guys who actually kno u r afraid to show their feelings. its pathetic i kno, (sorry guys!) but it cant be helped. sometimes a girls just gotta make the first move.
2007-02-06 13:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by sweet~n~sassy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally, guys moods change in proportion to our testosterone levels. Also, maybe he's afraid you'll reject him; rejection is a very big hit on the ego for males.
2007-02-06 13:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
they have issues and they all look for hott woman what they don't realize is that their not hott themselves everyone has some improfections
2007-02-06 13:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't give mixed message, you girls just totally and completely complicate everything out of proportion.
2007-02-06 13:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
they jsut wanna hurt you and mess w/ u for their fun don't tale guys seriosly
2007-02-06 13:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang women they complain to much....u need to just lay back and not worry so much....things tend to work themselves out
2007-02-06 13:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Shawn C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋