2007-02-06 13:22:48 · 11 answers · asked by Big Baby Sweets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If things work with the two of you.
Go For It
2007-02-06 13:25:59 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mom of three, my answer is probably biased. But, yes, date her. Get to know her first, see how she responds about her kids and your's too. I want to date and I know there have been men that are scared away because I have three kids. But, I've always taken care of my own and am not looking for someone to take over the daddy roll. Of course, if the relationship grows and grows, the fact that each of you have children won't matter at all. Yes, I'd like to someday get married but first, I date a man, I don't want to date his family and I don't want him to date mine. Adults first, children next. Take it slow when it comes to introducing the childen. Make sure you too are compatible first, especially when it comes to rules of child rearing.
2007-02-06 21:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by movie girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have when my kids were younger. Now my "baby" is 17, and this time in my life is for me. So no, I would not date someone who had three kids *unless* he did not have custody and saw them on the weekends or something. I just don't want to raise any more kids.
2007-02-06 21:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by kim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy was man enough to take care of his own kid and was responsible i dont see why not i dated a guy who had a baby girl and that really didnt bother me as long as they man up and take care of there kids instead of sitting on there *** or going out every night tryin to get action or worst doing stupid sht like smoking and drinking all the time...as long as they can support there kids then yes
2007-02-06 21:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a guy do that? Hitch up with a gal that had three and left the daddy/s? Obviously she has issues. You can't find a nice girl of your own that has spent her life getting a good education and waiting for you?
2007-02-06 21:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would not date a woman who had three children.
There is nothing wrong with it, but I prefer women with no children.
2007-02-06 21:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure would I love Children and I also have one of my own. My son is the most important thing to me and one day I wish to have more. My son love his mommy!
2007-02-06 21:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by spunkie_6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you are the man, make sure you have a good JOB because 4 kids aren't cheap to take of.
2007-02-06 21:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends. think about this:
how old are his kids?
how do they behave?
would your child like/get along with his kids?
would your child be "safe" around his kids unsupervised?
how does he discipline his kids?
how do you discipline your kid?
do you get along with his kids?
does he get alng with yours?
this list could go on a while.....
2007-02-06 21:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by LostInReality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you handle being the father/mother to step children? keep in mind they might say "youre not my father/mother i dont have to listen to you."
2007-02-06 21:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by jinxygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋