That when you STOP looking for a guy, that you will find one?
Your thoughts?
2007-02-06 13:11:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Sometimes you just have to stop and let the right person come to you. If you go looking for your man then it would take longer to find him. It is like you are drawing or making music sometimes you have to stop and let the inspiration come. Life is fast and waiting isn't good all the time. But it is necessary some of the time. I hope that helps.
2007-02-06 13:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it happens that when you stop looking for a guy you just find one. But it does seem like that. I know in my experience, that it definitely looks like your right, but thinking about it, I think its more than that.
I got out of a relationship about 5 months ago, and I felt so alone. I wanted to find someone new, and so I kept looking. Finally, about 3 months ago, I gave up. And then I met someone new, and we've been dating since.
It seems like it happened because I stopped looking, but I think it happened because I stopped TRYING. I know that in my case, and probably in lots of other women's, we try too hard to impress a guy. We change our style, our personality, and we just act different. And maybe guys don't like the way we changed ourselves, or maybe we just scare them off. Whatever it is, it doesn't really help us. But when we stop looking, we become ourselves again. And that is what guys love.
So maybe its not that we stopped looking, but that we stopped trying. Do you see what I'm saying?
2007-02-06 21:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kelsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worked for me. I stopped looking and one found me. He is so wonderful! We talk about how hard i tried not to be interested. I just didn't want to get hurt anymore. Good luck!
2007-02-06 21:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by sassiecassie76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, my last boyfried was absolutely horrible to me and I finally gave up and left him. I wasnt going to date for a long time. A month later, I found the man of my dreams. We are married now. Good luck!
2007-02-06 21:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think about it, you like a guy and you give him attention and when you stop giving him all that attention he feels that and when he notices he starts to come up to you and starts giving you a little attention.
2007-02-06 21:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by asdfghjkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because when you stop worrying about gettin a guy and you make yourself happy, you're more attractive.
2007-02-06 21:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i stopped looking for a girl and didn't find her
so...
2007-02-06 21:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Eloy O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can't really predict the love life of a random person online. you are your own person, don't let anyone tell you a yes or a no. ppl are ttly different from eachother. this might not be helpful, but it might help you choose.
2007-02-06 21:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by monkeyluver13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely. guys can tell when your desperate. when your not worried about a guy and just being yourself you show confidence and fun and guys are attracted to that.
2007-02-06 21:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by whyy_nottt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems to work on both sexes......i wasn't looking for a girlfriend.....but I met this one girl.......and she eventually became my wife.
2007-02-06 21:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋