I know it's not her fault, but Andy (my ex) and his really hot friend Thomas is falling for my friend Allana. My other friend Sarah says it makes her mad too. Thomas and Andy say I'm really annoying, but then they added,"But its ok for Allana to be annoying because she's hot and cool." The guys have been starting really cruel rumors about me that I am a loser and I try to be like Allana which I know for a fact is not true. Allana plays along with their games, and starts going along with the rumors sometimes. I am getting really hurt by all this, because I know liking Thomas and Andy is SO not worth it, and I'm also losing my best friend to all the guys. So how do I get over these guys and get my friend back? I've tried talking 2 he BTW.
2007-02-06 13:11:36 · 9 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I just got another bf, but I still need to resolve this problem.
2007-02-06 13:15:06 · update #1
btw, they only like her cuz she's a tomboy, and shes cool, but thomas says shes kinda pretty... but shes not popular either.
2007-02-06 13:16:11 · update #2
If your friend starts going along with the rumors then is she really your friend? A friend wouldn't do that, a friend will always defend you.
So forget about all the people that hurt you, the guys and her, and move on to make room for good people who care about you. Go have fun and enjoy your life.
2007-02-06 13:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh thats so mean i really hate guys like that and your friend isn't being much of a friend either just ignore those guys and if your friend won't come to reason she'll see soon how wrong she was (plus like the saying what comes around goes around ten fold lol) just stick with the friends you have now ride out the rumors I had to deal with that before too and just wait she will find that those boys won't be the kind of friends that she needs they wont' know what to tell her when things get bad let her fall before you come to get her off her butt. And about those guys start talking with some other guys you'll see that there are some pretty nice interesting people out there so good luck with all this!
2007-02-06 13:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jess_Eka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just get new friends.. but I know its easier said than done.. if you still want to be their friends.. then I would go up to the guys and tell them everything and that they shouldn't like Allana just because she's hot and cool.. then go to Allana and tell her whats been bothering you.. I just went through this with my friend and because we never told each other when we were mad.. we arent friends anymore.. you shouldn't lose your friendship over guys.. even if they are hot :)
2007-02-06 13:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by ekilps_08_25_93 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. There's nothing you can do about it. Hate is not the answer either, and as you said they're not worth it. You'll meet the right guy and when you do they won't care about any other girl. Just keep being friends with Allana and ignore everything else until you find who you seriously want to be with, and not just because you think they're "hot".
2007-02-06 13:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by Liquid Snake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,If she was your best friend she wouldn't go along
with the bull----.These guys are not hot stop looking at
guys looks most really hot guys are ***'s you are looking
in the wrong direction for a friend or for affection from
hot guys as you call them...let her go and let them go
there are more friends and more guys...they are really
meant for each until another cool chic comes along you
will see what i am saying is true give it time you will see..
and then she will be annoying also or worse a whore...
I would rather be annoying than be a whore...
so sit back and enjoy the show it will get good mark my words.
Laugh at the rumors who cares you don't they aren't true
so girl do not let this petty bull---- get you down...be smart
and you will be the winner.. So enjoy the show....
2007-02-06 13:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by bananasplit1744 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, ouch!!! im really srry about that! unfortunatly, theresnot much u can do. just think about this: is ur friend REALLY ur friend? shes sure not acting like it! if u say no, then sever the friendship. as for the guys, who care if they slobber over her? they sound like total jerks anyways. pay more attention to who is slobbering over YOU (dont worry, there is DEFINTELY someone who is) and flirt w/ them. maybe spread a few rumors of ur own....(yes i kno 2 wrongs dont make a right, but it sure can make u feel a lot better!!!)
2007-02-06 13:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by sweet~n~sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not on her!
Must be that she attracts guys named Thomas and Andy.
Also, don't player hate! It's not sexy.
2007-02-06 13:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
What's your friend's #? If she's really hot, I want to know.
2007-02-06 13:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
well I'm sure you could convince your friend to be a lesbian with you. It's just a suggestion
2007-02-06 13:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by danielsonrg 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋