Theres this girl who is a year older than me, but that doesnt matter. I like her and we've been friendly to each other for a while. The problem is is that my friends always make fun of her because shes kinda chubby, but i dont care and i go along with them so that they dont think theres something going on. SO i end up making fun of her in front of my friends even though I really dont want to and actually want to be together with her but I also dont want my friends to poke fun at me like the last time I went out with someone they didnt exactly like. ANd the last time she ended up being not only fat, but an idiot so my friends use that against me and say that they were always right. Remember...these are guy friends so not that its serious or anything and we often laugh about it, but I dont know how to give it to them.
2007-02-06 13:09:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont like her the most for her looks although I think that she is really cute. I like her because we like to talk to each other and make ourselves feel better in crappy situations. But then again what are friends for, right? Maybe they know me and her more that I.
2007-02-06 13:10:48 · update #1
Stand up for her and yourself.
You're selling out to fit in
2007-02-06 13:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
well you need to make the decision your self and don't let your friends influence you in to things.....don't you think that making fun of her may hurt her feelings???i have a big nose and i know this but who i am with don't notice it or they at least don't say any thing.....but i know i have this and she knows about her weight and why let your friends choose your happiness.....you need to think about your self and if they were true friends they would stand by you and not put you down for who you are dating or seeing or talking too....make your self happy.....stop worring about what every one else would think and if you change some one elses opinion then good for you in helping them see people for who they really are......and not what they look like......please don't make fun of her thats only hurting her and she may not want to be with you....
2007-02-06 21:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋