my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because she liked our relationship better when we were just friends...and she wants it to be like that again. i liked it a lot more when we were going out. but u know how when somebody says when they break up with u lets still be friends...they dont ever stay friends..if i cant get her back i wud atleast like to stay friends with her....but now that we rnt going out we have nothing to talk about and its really akward..i really want her back but i dont know how to go about getting her to want me back..any suggestions? please?
2007-02-06 13:02:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i might have forgotten to mention that she dumped me for another reason as well...today i saw her and she was flirting with one of my best friends more then she has ever flirted with me...this probably wont help my situation at all....email me at garythepineapple@yahoo.com if u have any questions about what im asking...
2007-02-06 13:24:55 · update #1
have you talked to her about this? I know this may hurt your feelings and givin I don't know all the details, that may just be an easy way out. If that's the case,find somebody new and in the mean time she may realize what she lost and come wanting you back.
2007-02-06 13:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by brandy1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she like you better when you guys were just friends...she probably won't come back to you.
I know it can be ackward to be friends with her again so i think it's best if you give her some time...maybe months later you guys can be friends again.
I'm friends with my exs. we couldn't be friends right after we broke up but maybe 6 months to 1 year later...we could be friends without letting our emotions get in the way
2007-02-06 13:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just got to let go. if its meant to be she will come back on her own. if not then relize that she is a stepping stone closer to the "one" and when you find the "one" you'll relize how you weren't meant too be with all those before her . learning from our past relationships is helpful to making the next one work and so forth. good luck.
2007-02-06 13:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by LostInReality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up and tell her how devastated you are. or you can buy her flowers or chocolates with a card and leave it on her doorstep. the fun way is if you see her in the hall or at school or something, jsut grab her and kiss her. heehee! good luck!
2007-02-06 13:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about the same things just don't talk like your a couple, buy her a friends themed gift for valentines day, buy her a gift period, offer to do something nice for her and start talking to her about anything you can
2007-02-06 13:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny do you really want to be with someone who does not want to be with you? DIdn't think so...She has made up her mind so as much as it hurts move on and learn from this thats all you can do..
2007-02-06 13:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you like her so much that you cant sleep.
if not write me back at dancingprincess67@yahoo.com
2007-02-06 13:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ruby T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋