Well, I dated this girl in the past and i didnt get much of a chance because she cheated on me with another guy. Yeah, our relationship sucked but she still cheated on me. Now she is planning on leaving her boyfriend for me. She says that she never knew how much she actually loved me, but i'm not sure if i can trust her... I love her so much... what do i do? I just need a little feedback so i can make up my mind...
2007-02-06 13:00:13 · 14 answers · asked by Lets GOOOO BUFFALO!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, it sounds like you like this girl, so you may not like what I'm about to tell you. This girl can't make up her mind what she wants. She is skipping back and forth between guys and if you two didn't "get much of a chance" then you couldn't have dated long, so how can she love you? Who's to say that she won't start dating you and then decide she changed her mind and go back to the guy she's dating now? That's what she's doing to you. I wouldn't waste my time on this one babe. There are other girls out there that deserve a good guy like you, so why give one that things so little of you that she'd cheat on you a second chance?
2007-02-06 13:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by mrb1017 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn.. that sucks...
it all depends on so many factors in your relationship that we arent' privy to, but... the general rule in my opinion should be not to get involved with her again. I'm afraid taht if she finds someone else again, she'll do it again. no good girl would cheat, even if the relationship wasn't that good. . so... no, don't do it.
better to be alone for a while than to be in a relationship where you got cheated on.
Everything can be forgiven and fixed, but some things just don't deserve to be. And cheating is one of them.
Trust me, forget about her. Same thing happened to me, and if you go back with her, it will only lead to more pain. Of course, unfortunately, your temptation might be too much. you'll only realize you should have listened when you get hurt again.
Again, dont' do it. If she phones or emails, ignore her. tell her you thought about it and it's over.
2007-02-06 21:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Eloy O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you heard the saying "once a cheater always a cheater" Some people think that means the person will cheat again. I think it's much deeper than that. To me it means that the person will always be a cheater to the person they cheated on. I'm saying this because you will never be able to look at her actions the same way. You will never have the type of relationship you should have. The trust factor is gone for you guys. Now for another saying. " Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me" Now ask yourself are you ready to be shamed?
2007-02-06 21:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by quel772o 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't really love her, you are just infatuated with her, (you allways want what you can't have), if she really cared for you in the first place, she would not have cheated, her new boyfriend is probably catching on to her, she is a manipulater, don't get drawn back into her game, she will hurt you again, find the girl who will love you, and not play mind games, she is out there somewhere.
2007-02-06 21:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I mean come on now, it sounds like you're a high school kid...(not saying that's bad, I'm one). Do you really think that you'll spend more than a couple of months with this girl?
If she's planning on leaving her boyfriend for you, and you know this, what makes you think that she'll stay with you? What happens when someone with bigger arms, or a more fun personality comes along? Will she still be with you, or will she plan on leaving you for this bigger and apparently better person?
If she's cheated on you before, she'll do it again. (Or atleast be temped to do it)
If she'll leave someone for you, she'll leave you for someone else.
-Just my opinion....
2007-02-06 21:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sondra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trusting her is really your call. But if you want advice then listen up. If she cheated on you once what would stop her from doing it again. And if she is leaving someone for you what would stop her from leaving you for someone else. I wouldn't trust her. But it is completely up to you. I don't know her but think about what I said. You need to ask yourself "What would stop her from doing it again". Besides you don't even know if she is telling you the trueth. Good Luck!
2007-02-06 21:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you say you love her, and shes telling you that she loves you and wants to be with you. Well, you can give it a second try, if not you will never know right...so just give it a second try, see if u can get to trust her again, maybe she changed...
And its not like u guys are getting married, if things go wrong you can always break up...
2007-02-06 21:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This chick seems confused. If I were you I would not go back with her. I'll give her time to see what she really wants. On the other hand, if you really like her give her another chance.
2007-02-06 21:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by chocbrownskin26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
well if she cheated on you and she is leaving someone for you, how do you know she wont leave you for SOMEONE ELSE. do you know what i mean?
if she loved you THAT much in the first place, she wouldnt have cheated on you
good luck
2007-02-06 21:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Games, Games, Games.
Probably can't trust her. WHy waste your time with someone that you are asking that question about.
You know the answer anyway.
2007-02-06 21:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋