I am married and have been for almost 15 years, but my neighbor is 53 and single and good looking and always talks to me when I get home from work.
He is very social, but seems to want to yack with me all the time. I think of him as a best friend, but I cannot tell if he is like sweet on me, I don't know.
I know, I will get these answers of shame on you, your married, I am not saying I am leaving hubby, I am just curious if I still "have it" like I can still attract people. My husband is not affectionate nor does he ever "notice" me where as my neighbor seems to comment on my appearance, encourages me about being physically fit, and encourages me about going back to school. I think I have been in hubby's shadow and now I want to shine and someone noticing makes me all tingly.
I know, bad bad bad.
2007-02-06 12:59:13 · 7 answers · asked by Jinglenut with bananas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cosmopolitan magazine says that even a married woman is allowed to have "crushes" Go ahead and enjoy the attention! It makes you feel good and puts a little pep in your step! Don't you think it makes life more fun : )
2007-02-06 13:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by cweetepye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bob, he's lonely, and you're listening.
Be very careful, I've read articles explaining how people who have had affairs started on very innocent circumstances. All the people the article featured had the same exact experience, they said that whatever was missing in their marriages, they found in their affair.
All I'm saying is be careful, I'm not accusing you of anything.
You will always "have it" when you still carry yourself well, you dress well, you put your makeup on...keep looking like a classy lady.
I'm married as well, and sometimes I feel my husband doesn't notice me either and I like it when other men do. There's nothing wrong with that. But don't try to provoke it either.
2007-02-06 13:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he likes you, then he probably does. What you should be asking yourself is how can you get the spark back in your marriage and get hubby to make you tingly. If you love him and/or are in love with him, you need to have an open conversation with him and let him know he is not making you feel like you still "have it".
And no, it's not bad, bad bad. It's human, human, human! Everybody wants to feel desired. Hubby should be sparking that fire and he needs to know that.
2007-02-06 13:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am separated but i have been talking to women all the time.
i have a very good lady friend that i worked with and we share good and bad. everybody knows she dating the co-worker and i still give her hugs at christmas time and other times.
so having a next door neighbour as a friend is great, you know what you are looking for but keep him as a friend and nothing further.
good luck
2007-02-06 13:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by manblind1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously is attracted to you because he comments on your being fit etc if it is over w husband then bust a move but you have a lot to think about
2007-02-06 13:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want us to say?
Yes, ma'am, you've still got it? Probably true.
Does that make you happy? I hope so.
Now what?
2007-02-06 13:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by reba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy him (the neighbor) and remember nothing lasts forever.
2007-02-06 13:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lonely and you listen. You still have it!
But don't go get it!
2007-02-06 13:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋