After how many dates do guys expect to finally sleep with a girl?

Question

... a girl you really like and respect.... just curious.

Please no "after marriage" responses.

Answer 1

If the guy is smart, he'll time it according to his girlfriend's cues. Usually, this can be indicated by "Bedroom Eyes," although that method isn't foolproof; more often than not, if he's slow and gentle about it, but makes his wishes clear, all she has to do is smile, and either say nothing or "Not tonight, okay?"

Answer 2

She might have been used just for sex before and now she is cautious. Or she thinks you will get bored once you have sex with her and dump her. However, her issues are not *your* fault. Two months is too long if its not her first time. And I´m a girl. Im sure that a girl is able to tell in the first few weeks whether she likes the guy enough and whether she is willing to take a risk and start a relationship with him. Try asking her honestly. Sex means trust also. Tell her you feel she doesnt trust you or like you enough. This might change her perception.

Answer 3

At least for me, if I were dating someone, there would not be a definite number. I might not be ready, or she might not be ready.

So, basically, whenever it felt right to both of us.

For most guys, I would guess they would get impatient and break up the relationship if nothing happened after about ten dates.

Answer 4

85

Answer 5

As soon as possible would be ideal.

But typically 2-3 dates.

Answer 6

Set down with the girl and discuss her feelings on the matter you might be surprised.

Answer 7

all depends on trust and both being ready for it.
one girlfriend was third date and another was couple of months before anything happens