Do you like or get irked when your husband/boyfriend makes a surprise appearance home? Like he comes home when you're not expecting him.
2007-02-06 12:43:46 · 21 answers · asked by chnchita 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Sort of. I like my time alone! The kids and i have a routine and if he leaves work early or is "sick" then it is all messed up. I have things i do and when hubby is home i can't get them done. So yes i do get irked!
2007-02-06 14:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only time I don't like it is when I've been cleaning and haven't gotten a shower yet because even though we both know I've been working I feel like I look lazy. BUT if he comes home at that point then I can get a shower uninterrupted by the kids so it's good at the same time. I guess overall I'm happy to see my husband anytime he gets home ;-)
2007-02-06 21:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No!!!! I love it. When he comes home early or unexpectantly it is a surprise, and those are always nice. He is not controlling, so if I haven't finished tidying the house it's ok, or if I am still in sweats that's ok. The only thing I think about is if the baby will go down for a nap quick enough! LOL!
2007-02-06 23:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by shannanm2783 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be irked? I wish I had more time too spend with my man. If he could come home early I'd be delighted, it's an extra pair of hands to help with the kids or even just to hug me.
2007-02-06 21:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by binglejells2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband usually tells me when he plans to do that, he can't always give the time he plans to stop by because he is a firefighter and it depends on wether or not they are busy. I might be annoyed a little if i wasn't expecting him because i wouldn't want him to know about how much of a yahoo answers addict i am.
2007-02-06 23:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by noone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, quite the opposite. If that is how your feeling, I'd consider getting some relationship help. If it's your boyfriend, and not the child's father I'd dump the dude. If your a single mom, I recommend staying away from the relationship scene, until your children are grown.
2007-02-07 02:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, it really doesn't bother me. Why would it? More time with him! We don't see enough of each other as it is. The only reason I can think that it would bother someone is because they are hiding something (ie an affair perhaps?). Most women like spending time with their mates... perhaps they should reevaluate their relationship if they don't?
2007-02-06 20:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I might be a little annoyed. don't normally bother to clean up until a hour before he's due home. He would think I'm lazy if he saw the messy house.
2007-02-06 23:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by pchiz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, unless he riles up the kids and then leaves again. I mean it is his home too. As long as he doesn't get in my way I could care less.
2007-02-06 20:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by angelbabydoll82 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Both! Some days I love when my husband pops in on us, but others it kills me because he totally gets Piper wired and then leaves me hanging and off schedule.
2007-02-06 20:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by RachelCook WV 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋