I'm a sophomore in highschool, and there's a freshman girl I saw who I want to get to know. How should I approach her for the first time?
I don't have any classes with her, and i only see her in between some classes.
I wanna go up to her, but I can never find her during any of the breaks or in the morning or after school.
Sicne it's just between a few classes, I can't really go up to her because she's with all her friends and we don't get much time to switch classes.
What should I do? Write a Valentine's day card? Or would it be too wierd giving a valentine's card before even talking to her.
And would talking to her in front of her friends change her judgement or anything?
2007-02-06 12:40:25 · 10 answers · asked by Andrew 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Possibly asking around. If there is a social gathering she might be at. Try to attend. Be nice. Cavalier and a gentleman. That kinda stuff goes far with girls..."Just not creepy" lol Yes the Valentines Day car would not be a good thing right off the bat.
Get to know her. Start off by saying 'hi' in the halls. That's it. Then build from there. After a few times of saying hi maybe mix it up and ask a few questions. Just don't be too invasive or inquisitive. Be nice. You'll do fine.
Good luck.
2007-02-06 12:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by fall_out_boy2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont give her a valentines day card if you have never talked cause thats a bit stalkerish for her. and also yeah talking in front of her friends will probably change her judgement so catching her before shes with her friends would be best or maybe just walk by her and smile so she notices you and then you can start talking. like take it slow dont just show up with a valentines card one day. cause thats a little weird
2007-02-06 20:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by jamieluvsu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i'm sorry to tell you this, but i think you are a bit too young to date, and you don't know what having a girlfriend is all about, it's not like a bit better than a best friend, it's your future soulmate, and that's why i say it's too early, nowadays, nobody realize the importance of it, and they just mess up after high school, sorry, but i think she's trying to ignore you, if she's not even talking to you, nor even with you, since she's always with your friends, and if you want to have a girlfriend, and you never see her, not even to tell her that you like her, what's the thing about, remember, it's get to know each other, and to be in a realiationship, and share.
2007-02-06 20:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by adrienguychristian 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just talk to her with her friends around, ask her for her number. It'll leave a better impression if you show her that you're not afraid of talking to her with her friends around, and if you have her number you'll be able to talk to her a lot more. Good Luck with this girl, I hope everything goes well.
2007-02-06 20:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by gothboylovur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u see her with her friends just go up to her and say "sorry can I talk to u for a sec" and move to a more private place, then just ask for her number. I think it will be pretty good that u will go up to her when shes with her friends, it shows u are confident, most guys will be scared to go up to a girl with her friends around, so im sure it will have good results.
2007-02-06 20:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well... thats a toughie...you should try to get one of your friends to give her a note for you or you could give it to her yourself snd it wouldnt matter about her friends because its just a note. ( be aware that she will MOST LIKELY share this note with her friends!) or you could just go up and talk to her i mean it shouldnt do too much harm if it does any at all because you are a sophmore and shes a freshman.
i wish you the best of luck!
2007-02-06 20:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ginny 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give her a funny Valentine's day card that lets her know you want to get to know her. Nothing mushy or serious, you don't want to scare her away.
2007-02-06 20:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be so shy go up to her even if her friends are there her friends will think its cool that a older guy likes her...if they tink its cool then so dose she.talk to her first then give her a card ..if you have never talked to her she`ll think your a stalker
2007-02-06 20:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ihearthim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up and ask her. If she is in front of her friends, even better. Be a man!
2007-02-06 20:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by hisownufo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her and asdk her out
2007-02-06 20:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by monte c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋