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2007-02-06 12:28:09 · 8 answers · asked by bigjazz13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEVER...hon all it is, is a huge expensive stressful day...when all you really have is a peice of paper that says you are married. The flowers die the dresses get stored away, the band does another gig, the honeymoon ends, the photos get lost in the shuffle. Then most likely you spend the same amount of money but without the party to sign another peice of paper to cancel out the first one when you get divorced. Why do we need to go thru all that to prove what, that we love each other...have parties at home, go on vacations, spend 300 bucks and legally change your last name to his. It doesnt make sense...the tax breaks arent even worth it. If you love someone a peice of paper can not prove it can not keep it strong...but it can make for alot of stress pressure and a much harder break if it doesnt work out. Live together, love each other, have parties, go on vacations have kids even....why buy into the whole WEDDING DAY commercialism which is basically just highway robbery that benefits the party people in the beginning and the lawyers in the end
2007-02-06 12:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kujo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is this old saying from where i come from..
marriage is just like a kyte , one day you will both feel the relationship is lifting you both to a higuer level,..and both families, friends relatives , will agree...
less poetic, the above usually happens when both parties already finished college or both are very clear about the way they want to spend the rest of their lives. this is usually after 25 for girls and after 27 for guys.
After 10 years of marriage the passion might be all gone, but everyhting that was not very annoying at the beggining will rise and kick you in the face. so make sure first if you will be able to handle that.
also bear in mind that not only you marry someone, you will marry a family, be tolerant and try to concela differences, ...but make sure you know where your limits are.
also very important point, boy or girl, make sure you can financially support yourself, believing that your sweetheart is going to suppport you can end up very bad.
2007-02-06 12:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by fonovitrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask someone else when is time to get married... then it's NOT YOUR time to get married. Darling, don't rush things, I seen a lot of my friends get married young and now they are all getting divorce. Enjoy being single, trust me... the older you are, the better you know yourself and you will know WHAT you want in life and WHEN you are ready to get married.
2007-02-06 12:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by MissArkansasGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can't imagine living the rest of your life without the man/woman standing in front of you. When you know they have faults, but you don't care, because you can't imagine waking up to anybody else who doesn't have those faults.
But mostly when you are absolutely sure you can live the rest of your life without any more "firsts". First kisses, first dates etc..
Because you are more than happy to give up the firsts for the lasts.
2007-02-06 12:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no set time but I would say wait till after you have a good education to help with all the new bills ex...life goes on and it's never free!!
2007-02-06 12:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the age of 30. When you complete your degree, and lived life.
2007-02-06 12:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Virgo27 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you grow up and feel responsible enough to make a marriage work and not be ready to run home to mother everytime something goes wrong.
2007-02-06 12:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question only you can answer/
2007-02-06 12:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by amish_renegade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋