There are two guys that love me, but I don't like them, what should I do?

Question

And there is one guy I do like, but he lives 6 hours away! Guys and gals can answer this, I need your opinions!

Answer 1

1) BE HONEST!! I learned the hard way that if you DON'T even like one of the guys and he loves you, you're going to get yourself into VERY hot water. I had a stalker 3 years later thanks to that lesson.

2) How old are you? Unless you're 18+, I wouldn't suggest a distance of even 6 hours in a relationship! Why? Right now you're trying to build a relationship while doing well in school. From experience I can tell you to just be friends with him. Strengthen your friendship before jumping into a long-distance relationship.

Answer 2

The guy that lives 6 hours away is like having a long distance relationship. So if you want to have a long distance relationship than go for him since you said you like him. But he might cheat on you. Just pick what you're heart leads to. Good luck!!

Answer 3

Well first of all, you need to let the other two know thatyou dont like em... second of all, you like this guy, but does he like you also? maybe 6 hrs wont be as big a deal if you guys both want eachother.. I am sure you can work it out... just see where he is at as far as having a relationship with you! talk to him. :) it could be worth it and you guys end up happy together! Good luck!

Answer 4

Don't go out with anyone you don't like back. If your heart isn't telling you they're the ones then don't even bother with them. For the guy you do like, try long distance and see how this works for you. My one friend has a girlfriend across the country and they're just fine. Talk to each other on the phone and internet daily. Hope you have success with this.

Answer 5

k well first of all... these two boys probably LIKE you, love is a very strong word to use especially if you are not very close to them. that sorted out, you definitely shouldnt feel like you should like them, but you may want to give them a chance..especially since the person you do like is so far away and a relationship probably wont work.

i say give the guys a chance, dont break their hearts though....at least give them the chance to be your friends, nothing bad can really come of out of that right?

and if you dont think that you want anything to do with these two guys, then maybe just tell them, then they can get over you and start to move on and you can move on too!

good luck

Answer 6

Introduce the 2 guys to eachother and tell them to figure you out... and the guy whos 6 hours away ask him to move closer, if he says no, see how the other 2 are doing when it comes to you?

Answer 7

You don't have to do anything unless they bother you. Just tell them that you don't like them. If they keep bothering you, tell them again. If they continue, tell your school counselor that they're stalking you. 6 hours away for the guy you like is nothing. Try half way across the world!

Answer 8

Well, don't go with the 2 guys.......and long distance relationships very seldom work out, but some have ....and very successfully too I might add.

Answer 9

i think you shouldn't tell the guys anything.try to ignore them for the whole time your around them.then if they don't stop being a noob then tell them how you really feel.i mean tell them theres tons of fishes in the ocean not just 1.

Answer 10

that evil in love... a love triangle, but you dont want to even be in it. If you want them both gone then have them both be at each others necks fighting over you, while they are, make sure you get a boyfriend so they will both stop fightin over you.