shes always asssuming that im just playing on her
with her instincts that im flirting with every gurl i am with...
why gurls act that way?
2007-02-06 12:23:45 · 24 answers · asked by watdahell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all girls act this way, maybe your girlfriend is insecure!!
2007-02-06 12:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by chevy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One advice i've gotten before, was that both partners should bring out the best in one another. Its not fair that this relationship should stress you. Love is a lovely thing. It should not be a burden. Then again, there are cases where 2 people would not get along very often but still find it worthwhile to stay in the relationship. make a decision. Quick. Otherwise, dragging this on will not help either sides Gdluck:)
2016-05-24 01:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls act that way, The girls who have the experience and mature enough to know how the relationship works and know what to expect unless your being honest with the girl. The girls who doesn't have lots of experience and immature tend to feel that way- insecure and feel jealous and feel brand new in the relationship, sometimes longer into a real relationship depend on the personalities. I once felt at first as I was young. The more I dated, I knew what to know if I want to act that way to give the hints to the guys. If you are not happy having her feelings or her acts toward you- Tell her how you feel - tired of this- She may as well find the better guy that matches her feelings.
2007-02-06 12:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Julie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am a gurl and i will tell you that if she doesnt trust you now there will never be a time that anything works in your relationship believe i know ....you should just be like ay babe you are the only gurl for me i aint with no one else and if she says ok and believes you and then starts doing it again you need to get rid of her quick bc nothing will ever work with gurls like that.
if she actually believes you and stops being so negative and assuming things then congrats not many chicks do
2007-02-06 12:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're giving her a vibe that you're cheating. I never was untrusting with a guy and never needed a reason to be, but I couldn't trust my last ex. I called him all the time and freaked out if he never picked up. This coming from a girl who usually is happy with one or two phone calls a week. I dumped him because he was cheating, found out from a friend and he fessed up. I couldn't figure out how come I assumed he was cheating, but never did with any other guy. Now that I look back he gave me plenty of reasons not to trust him. It was all about his attitude.
2007-02-06 13:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Awesome Alisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's insecure or jealous. Maybe yr not treating or show her that u love her enough. If u really like each other, then there should be trust in between. Not all girls do that. Oh, I wouldn't say that she's so negative...it's natural instinct to be aware/jealous of other comepetition. it's human nature!
2007-02-06 12:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by aji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just girls....but to anyone who acts like that. They have a low self esteam. She's gonna be like that for the rest of your natural life if you don't stop it...or leave her now. My friend is like that. Her husband left for Florida for a REALLY good job....and is sending her up that money so they can come down there with him. And the whole time she's been crying thinking that he's cheating on her..and getting upset. So..yeah...have fun with that woman. have fun with any woman you date... NOT worth it
2007-02-06 12:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of girls get jealous for no reason... Its like instinct. They cant help it, their always curious about something. If she cant ever trust you, it may not be meant to be. Because for a relationship to work, there needs to be trust, or else it wont work out too well. I hope everythign starts going better for you, good luck!
2007-02-06 12:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your girl is insecure. This can wreck a relationship. Assuming that you're not messing around, tell her that without trust, there's not much of a relationship there.
2007-02-06 12:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by flygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does she actaully see you with other girls? If not then she is insecure with herself. Or perhaps she is flirting with other guys and feels guilty. Perhaps she has friends that don't like you and they are putting ideas in her head. A female's mind is her worst enemy when they are in lust.
2007-02-06 12:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know some girls are like that there just suspiciouse!!! don't worrie i get that way but i try not to say anything.It's kinda how some girls are they just want there boyfriend to themself they think negative. I HOPE THAT HELPED
2007-02-06 12:27:02 · answer #11 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋