My best friend is totally in love with this cutie in our school, but he asked me out. He is really cute, nice and smart so now i don't know what to do! I don't want to hurt my best friend's feeling but I really want to go out with him!
2007-02-06 12:18:02 · 5 answers · asked by yxq1995 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a toughy. Is your friend already going out with this guy?
If so- turn him down. You don't want to hurt your BFF. If he's not with your friend, ask your friend in private if it's ok to go out with him. That way, if she says yes, you can go out with him, have the time of your life, and not have to worry about hurting your BFF's feelings. If you go out with him after she says yes, and she is still hurt by it, sit down and talk to her again and say that she gave you permission to go out with him, but if it still really hurts her inside maybe you should consider not going out with him again- unless you really are feeling a strong connection between you and him. If you go out with him after she said no, BIG MISTAKE. First of all, you will hurt your BFF alot- and it may cost you your friendship. Second, when you go out with him again you will feel totally uncomfortable knowing you hurt your best friend over some guy and you will not have a good time.
Hope all goes well!
<3,
Cinderella108
2007-02-06 12:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cinderella108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn him down .Don't mess with her man. You where never a true friend. A true friend nose the boundary line .And the simple thought of crossing that line means you have no idea what friendship means .I have seen it happen far to much.No man is worth losing your girl.Find a differnt guy.
2007-02-06 20:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by speedy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure your friend is more important to you so i would stay away from the guy. i know from experience that you do not want to fight over a guy with your best friend...it could end up bad when its all over with...never let a guy come between you and your best friend..im sure he's not worth it
2007-02-06 20:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by kahne chick 069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friend what her BF did. Seriously...what ever happened to the phrases...Chicks before d***s and Bro's before h**s
2007-02-06 20:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by woohoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like what your first answer said. I would tell your friend.....then tell the dude no. Chances are he's after just one thing anyway.
2007-02-06 20:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋