what's the worse tht it gets w/ strippers and sluty girls? i'm guessing all guys cheat? especailly if the stripper makes the first move? would you girl on here let your bf go to 1?
2007-02-06 12:17:50 · 4 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Let your fiance know what you are comfortable with. There's no law anywhere that says you have to allow him to have strippers. If you are seriously concerned that he will cheat, then you probably shouldn't be marrying him in the first place. Infedility is a big reason for a lot of divorces. Don't doom yourself from the start. If you can't trust him to keep his thang in his pants, then you don't need to be letting him use it on you. If it makes you more comfortable, find a guy that you are comfortable with to accompany your fiance to the party, that way he can keep an eye on your guy for you. Having a bachelor party does not give the groom-to-be permission to cheat. That's preposterous.
2007-02-07 10:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I understand, at most strip clubs, the men can look, but don't touch.
Personally, I feel that strip clubs are trashy and degrading to women, so I can understand if you would be frustrated with the idea of your husband/fiance/boyfriend going to one for a bachelor's party. Not all bachelor parties are like that, however.
My husband went to one for a good friend of ours which consisted of them (a bunch of college graduates!) sitting around eating pizza and playing video games. I know this for sure, because when I got home early, they let me join in. It was good, clean fun.
As a previous poster said, it all depends on who's throwing the party. The guys I mentioned earlier were wholesome, upright guys who don't enjoy spending their time degrading women. If, however, the guy running the party is a womanizer, then chances are, a strip club is the kind of party you'll get.
2007-02-10 01:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just went to one Friday... No sex involved. Not sure where this whole idea came from, probably some movie. I don't doubt some grooms have had sex but I gotta assume most men are not gonna look for that considering they are getting married soon. . . Nothing more than dinner, some drinks, and a gentleman's club to wrap up the night.
2016-05-24 01:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Bacholer party is something that the bride to be needs to really not think about. She needs to focus on her own party.
You can tell by what kind of friends that are throwing his party what they are going to do. If they party animals...forget it. It'sstrip club
2007-02-07 09:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋